07-18-2015, 05:35 PM
Quote:Lol try living in a town of less than 2000, preaching to the quire
Fucking hell.. my town does my head in enough being so small! :-O
Quote:Of course more runs of AM6 are a good thing and can only help. But to me I just saw a bunch of mental masturbation in SM3 journals and reasons why they don't have to approach. Ex. "All my neediness is gone, so now I don't have a reason to approach" Or this guy that ran SM3 and didn't even want sex, and then says that he wants to run it again! Not saying that more runs can't help just and maybe sometimes its needed, but a lot of times its up to the listener.
Oh yeah, it's funny how we rationalize so much to avoid approaching.. I can't say much as I did it for years and still do at times. It's similar to my realization recently that I was scared to let go of neediness because I felt I may not take any of the actions like approaching. If we've had that for so many years then it's gone then it may be hard to find new reasons to take those actions.