03-13-2015, 03:18 PM
(10-23-2014, 12:23 AM)DarthXedonias Wrote: The only problem, that i keep reminding myself of, is that essentially SM3 is about getting sex, sex, and more sex. I might have been interested in that type of living before AM6 but now I feel like it just wouldn't add anything meaningful to my life. I mean banging one chick after the other doesn't add to my self-esteem, self-reliance, self-confidence or any other part of my self development (The things that really matter imo). And "Yet" I keep coming back to the fact that even though SM3 has sex as the destination, it has lots of self development along the way. Knowing this makes my decision so difficult >.<
I would argue that the ability to lay attractive women can be an incredible marker for self-development.
It takes what AM develops and SM expands upon—confidence, self-esteem, little to no guilt, fear, and shame—to have that kind of success with women. So if you're bedding bad b*tches [couldn't resist alliteration], it is likely that you possess manly qualities.
It's no secret that I want to get my sex life into gear, but I've noticed how the quality of my life has improved with more confidence and less shame. Like you, I'm very much interested in the continued self-development (i.e. even more OGFS) that SM3 has to offer.
