(02-07-2015, 12:41 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: For me tho it's just the opposite: SM is pushing me to really buckle down on EVERYTHING in life. AM was so wishy washy for me.
You are right of course. Looking at AM6 on paper it seems like what I'd want now, but actually for the first time in a LONG while I have a much better sense of what I'd like to aim for and I feel I've grown a ton during SM. I think a lot of it had to do with the honesty stuff. Had to get my thoughts and feel for "me" together to ignore that slight disapproval that's usually people's first reaction when I'm open about controversial things. I'm now working daily towards a new direction career-wise, feel more empowered and my body language is much improved. Definitely didn't get this with AM, though maybe its what started it all and now SM was just keeping it up? Blackdragon's book helped too.
Gah, I don't know! :D I'll see how you do on EPRHA and go with what feels good when the time comes.
(02-07-2015, 01:33 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: I would love to have a chance with a woman that is too tight!!! Almost every woman I sleep with, I politely explain what kegel exercises are and politely ask them to do their kegel exercises for our next encounter!
lol, I bet you're getting some warm smiles from them :D The 1st time I met her I was sure it wouldn't be a real issue if we'd have proper privacy and lube, but nooope. Kind of a deal breaker - imagine if some couple were to wait until they were married and then that happened... Another female I saw a few times was just on the fence of being too tight, so (after the 1st oops) I had be careful not to slam into her as the initial resistance suddenly went away. But after that it was fun, like there was this tight ring moving up & down my shaft.
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