In3deeps's Quest to Attract His Perfect Wife

[Shannon]

today i saw an attractive girl... actually i've seen her before... almost 3 years ago.... shes a relative from my brother in law side

anyway i know that shes not the result of the manifestation... its something random as there was a funeral i needed to attend and she was there as well since my bro-in-law's dad pass away... of course i did not talk to her as the circumstances were not right

but however it got me thinking about something which i hope Shannon oir anyone else can clarify

when the manifestation of your so called perfect girl happens,Is it such that you have to take the step to have courage to cold approach her? or would it come along the lines that we somehow inevitably get introduced to each other and things just fall into place naturally

The reason i'm asking is, if i have to cold approach,

1) i'm not good at it
2) I might cold approach someone who is not the result of the manifestation but thinking that she is

Manifestation happens in some very strange and unexpected ways. In some cases, I did not realize that it was a manifestation for months or even years afterwards. And yes, sometimes I have had to overcome some approach anxiety to accomplish the goal.

Case #1: "Red" Dawn. Natural redhead, average looking to me now, but stunningly beautiful at the time. Saw her at a flea market. We locked eyes and it was like someone threw a brick at my head and knocked me for a loop. I was absolutely terrified, but I was even more attracted, and I went over and talked to her. Turned out she was equally attracted. We exchanged numbers, and within a week, we were dating. Relationship lasted 6 months until my refusal to do drugs got her to leave.

Case #2: Laura. Natural redhead, who I encountered in my college math class long ago. I was so stunned by her that I could not stop staring, and I don't remember anything of that entire semester in that class but that day. She was off in lala land the whole class. I spent the whole class figuring out how to say hello. When class ended, I made sure I was the first out the door, and I waited for her. When she came out I said, "Hello, Laura." She was surprised and confused until I pointed out that she knew me, and who I was. (We had dated in 8th grade, 13 years prior.) I knew her, yes, but did I have butterflies and scary things in my stomach at approaching her? You bet. But I did it anyway. Relationship lasted 3 years. For the record, I had to ask her out on that first date 5 times before she could believe that I was seriously interested. That's how low her self esteem was. She was an absolutely beautiful girl. We had our first date the very same night, and after that we ended up in bed together. 8 hours after I had said hello. And we were never apart after that if it was possible.

Sometimes, you will be afraid, and you will have to approach anyway. But in every case of manifestation I have experienced fear on approach with, the attraction was greater than the fear, and I did it anyway.

If you cold approach someone thinking she is a result of manifestation, you're looking for it too hard. If you're looking for it, you can over-think it and override the manifestation sequence. Just leave it alone and let it be a surprise. Every time I have had a successful manifestation, it's been out of my mind and a surprise, except when I was actively doing the manifestation manually.

For instance, Red Dawn was completely a surprise. Laura, on the other hand, was the result of using "powered creative visualization" methods for a couple weeks, and what really stunned me was that she looked exactly like the woman I had been visualizing. I don't recommend visualizing a specific face, though. That can lead to problems.

Just use the program and leave it alone. Put it out of your mind, and let it happen. Trying too hard makes you your own worst enemy.