09-27-2014, 04:16 PM
I like your progress at your work. I had a similar thing with Alpha 2011.
I'd get alot of crap from the guys I did security with and didn't know how to handle it. And when I started giving it back and standing up for myself they respected me way more and i'm good friends with them now even though we've all moved on from that job a few years ago. Initially it did take a bit of my getting angry and doing something about it. And I also realized that in a group of guys that giving each other crap like that is a bonding thing and when I was comfortable with that and gave it back was when we become good friends. I never was comfortable with that before then.
Though I can't say what the dynamic is in your office it reminded me of that.
-Ben
I'd get alot of crap from the guys I did security with and didn't know how to handle it. And when I started giving it back and standing up for myself they respected me way more and i'm good friends with them now even though we've all moved on from that job a few years ago. Initially it did take a bit of my getting angry and doing something about it. And I also realized that in a group of guys that giving each other crap like that is a bonding thing and when I was comfortable with that and gave it back was when we become good friends. I never was comfortable with that before then.
Though I can't say what the dynamic is in your office it reminded me of that.
-Ben
