(09-07-2014, 04:28 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Are you saying I just stick with her and hear her out? I don't want to become what is called an "emotional tampon". How do you stick with her without becoming that?
She can't make you become anything, just don't let her ;) Be emotionally present (think "grounding" as opposed to getting swiped up by a storm) and try to lead her out of it while ignoring the logical as much as possible without being a jerk. A longer answer is in your journal. I'm talking about girls that already know you btw.
ION, it sure seems she liked that I put some effort into making some preparations to blindfold her & tie her hands up behind the bed... kinda of a nice present/surprise to give too, wasn't difficult at all ;)
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