Quote:Thanks Ben! I didn't get that when I first read your comment but now I get it.
The other thing that pops into my head is that we've all been told not to be 'full of ourselves' or 'that person loves themselves' so we're made to feel bad for stuff like this. That is bullshit, why not feel good about yourself.. anyone who talks down on that obviously doesn't feel like that about themselves.
Quote:I'm getting compliments about how beautiful I look and I swear I haven't done anything differently.
It probably means something has shifted internally. You probably know some people who are technically physically 'beautiful' but something with their energy or how they are is a turn off, then there are others who are not as attractive physically but are attractive because of their energy and how they present themselves.
So some of it is internal.
It's like usually when i'm feeling really crap, anxious, needy or whatever I don't really get much attention from women. But times when i'm feeling happy, confident, relaxed and just don't care I get more interest like smiling from women and such.
If you transform something internally people pick it up on the outside.
-Ben
