04-20-2010, 08:23 PM
(04-20-2010, 01:17 AM)alumni80 Wrote: An adult filter sounds good.
Your points are all very helpful to me where I am, Andrew. Thanks for sharing more of your story and adding specific tips. I'll just stick with it and work to improve my imagination. Years of porn have definitely "atrophied" that part of my mind.
Just so I'm clear, could you clarify what you mean by "invoking x-factor"? Do you mean, find and focus on that thing that really turns you on as a trigger to help with non-porn erections?
Your insights are appreciated!
Yes, the things that have most gotten you going during real life intercourse, or the things you never got to do (and want to) but imagine would be like. All the things that push your buttons. For example a woman's long hair brushing on an exposed chest is a trigger for me (as well as the one I mentioned last post). I have quite literally around a hundred, and probably more I'm not aware of.
Andrew // Site Architect "Attack its weak point for massive damage" -Giant Enemy Crab