01-14-2014, 05:34 PM
(01-14-2014, 08:01 AM)Spiral Wrote: Hey K, looks like you had alot of fun! I am laughing a bit at your experience at not adhering to Shannon's warning lol. But you had an interesting and slightly funny story to tell. I like to think of it as that when I want to make a move on a woman. I'm still very reserved but I'm taking steps out of my comfort zone to socialize. It's the same motion when you want to kiss a woman or make a move. I do everything in my power to accept the situation and remind myself that I deserve to be apart of the experience rather than go into my head. You realize she was interested in you.. Were you interested in her? Chances of you making a wrong move are pretty much nill. EVEN if you do something that embarasses you or she rejects your moves, laugh about it and don't take it too seriously. You now have a funny story to tell your friends, win-win! Of course, that's not exactly your intent right? lol. I think you know all this stuff. When it comes down to it you have to make a decision. I know this because I'm very indecisive haha! But it's the truth. Make the decision and have the self discipline to follow through. No need to go our whole lives without conquering our irrational fears, right? Enjoy that shit!
I suggest figuring out why you keep hitting a brick wall when it comes to "pulling the trigger". I don't know what it is but I think you should run OF and seek the challenge together. OF will help you understand the source of your fear and get you trying new things. Seek the challenge will instill in you the will power to follow through AND enjoy the process. Think of the possibilities. anyways I wanted to share my 2 cents and maybe freshen up your views a bit.
I forgot all about Seek the Challenge, thanks for that Spiral. I think that sub come definitely come in handy. If I had known, I would have grabbed it during the sale. I currently have OGSF and my ASC name embed but I can't drop Overcome Procrastination just yet. I think what I might do is run ASC with Overcome Procrastination and then run ASC with OF or OGSF as you suggested. Thanks a ton bro.
Quote:Hey K-train good to see you're still around dude. Sounds like things are going well.
I've still been using TUW's but only off and on as I have mainly been out with the guys lately and not around as many women as I would like. Got to say though they still do get me into a bit of trouble every now and then Wink
NYE was having drinks and a bit of a party at my place. Was feeling in a good mood to start off with as it was NYE and I was just enjoying myself.
So one of my new flatmates is a girl that's a little on the young side for my liking but she had a few friends over that night (all of them very attractive). I decided to give P18 a run and it did not disappoint. I got to talking to one of the girls and she wouldn't stop flirting with me and kept coming closer and closer touching me more and more. Her friend kept coming over and flirting with me as well and saying you have a boyfriend don't hook up with him. So after a while the girl I was talking to leans over and whispers in my ear "wanna f**k". Then says but you can't let my friends know. So I head off to the toilet and she follows me in and we start hooking up. After a few minutes she says she can't do this and runs off. The next day my flatmate just gives me the evils for the whole time I was around (she's got over it now Smile )
Hey Jim, long time no see man! Your results definitely mirror mine. I find it hilarious that she knew it was "wrong" but couldn't help her self lol. Shannon wasn't shitting about these TUWs, they can definitely open some doors. I'm finding that the slow burn subs like P8c seem to be the strongest. If you can find a way to spend time around the right woman this thing kicks serious ass. I think its probably because the arousal comes on slow and feels more authentic.
Which of the TUWs is your favorite and why?
