04-06-2013, 07:31 AM
(03-30-2013, 09:56 PM)IronSmooth Wrote: OGSF would help thats a sure thing.
You need to get to the root of the problem, WHY you are afraid to commit.
I know i was afraid to commit because i was living with my parents and didnt have enough finance to start a family so dating was a little uncomfortable. Made me feel like im not worthy if i cant provide. So i stayed single and just played around.
You know what, I feel the same way Iron. I think if I had my own place it wouldn't be as big of a deal. Moving out (to me) seems difficult because I don't have the necessary finances to do so and the thought of having some random roommate doesn't appeal to me at all unless it was someone I knew already. But that's probably just fear too.
Currently I've got about of month of exposure for AOS and things are getting interesting. I'm noticing a couple female classmates actively trying to seek me out. One in particular is definitely attracted because as I walked into Subway i saw her another guy and we waved at each other. Later on, as I'm eating, she plops down beside me and begins talking and talking. Later on after class I had like 3-4 girls around me wanting to know where and when I'd study.
People in general seem to just like me. I've had a couple people say "you have a great personality" or "people get along really well with you". It's awesome. I also notice that people will hold conversations with me far longer than they intended. I had a male friend literally talk with me for almost an hour after he stated he was going to the library. This has translated into people wanting to help me and going that extra mile. I'm thinking of doing an internship over the summer involving sales and many of the managers are extra keen to have me work with them (the commission is EXTREMELY good and the company has been around for a while so it's all legit).
I have moments where I feel confident in a smooth way if you can imagine that. I was doing cold approaches on campus for the company I'm trying to work with along with a buddy of mine as we were trying to get signatures and garner more interest for the internship. I actually approached a trio of girls (all of them cute) with almost zero anxiety and got them to sign up. I'm wondering how well AOS would work when doing sales?