Path to Greatness - Journal

[Javier Gerardo]

Hmm...that is a good question. I would think that in order to listen to the full 90 days would require listening to the sub for a longer period overall. with the 3 days on 1 day off routine. I think the 1 1/2 days is when you've missed more than 3-4 days in a row otherwise it's just the addition of the days you missed at the end.

Still if you can handle it without being worn out then by all means do the full 90 days straight.

Lol...like in the scott pilgrim movie! Level up Dude!!! But truly, it doesn't hurt to look at it like practice...though in my mind that doesn't mean you need to sleep with low quality women. The practice I was referring to was flirting, interacting, and dating just so you feel comfortable in those situations with women so that ultimately it's no big deal to be out on a date with an attractive woman. So often we think that's it amazing that the attractive woman said yes to us that we attach a far more importance to it than it actually has and over-stress ourselves. When you've dated plenty of women, you give it the proper perspective and can then relax and just enjoy. All the guys I've seen on the forum and in life that have had massive success treat dating any particular woman as no big deal as they know their own value and know in a quiet, confident way that the woman is lucky to be out with them..not the other way around.

I'm still listening to it daily as I don't get the headaches and the feeling of being worn out like before. My sleep hours also haven't increased. In fact it kind of lessen like only 8 hours and I can already wake up. But this has more to do I think with me having, as I said more motivation and vitality for life. When I was depress I used to sleep for 10 hours or more per day.

I would like to treat dating women as no big deal too. But years of bad social conditioning and the idea that "You won't be happy until you find someone" or "You can't be happy if you're single" thinking is always getting at me. It's like I'm surrounded by a lot of people who have those ways of thinking. In some ways though I still hold firm on my stance of enjoying oneself as a single man and women are lucky to be with me.

Yes I've had many experiences recently in flirting, interacting and overall socializing with women. It just that in many ways I didn't pull the trigger or I didn't take risks too push myself outside my comfort zone. So oftentimes I just stayed as friends with these women.
Last week specifically I stayed over my lady friends house with her other lady friends. We flirted and had fun so it's a good practice even though not much happened aside from that. I should keep on being grateful for getting those kinds of situations and look at it positively always.
Now the challenge for me is to go out tonight but a big part of me just want to stay home. I hope I persuade myself to go out.