10-15-2012, 09:26 AM
Okay time for another update.
Absolute Self Confidence has been hitting me hard everyday. I continue listening to it nonstop for at least 8 hours a day. There are days wherein I feel I have been listening to it for up to 16 hours a day.
Past weekend has been kind of tough for me again. I happen to came up with a realization of how I manage to screw or f**k up some of the chances that I should have gotten with women. There were instances wherein I didn't pursue any contact with a girl because I wasn't that attracted to her. This was even though I can entirely feel and see that she really wants me. Another one is when I end up unconsciously friendzoning a girl because I couldn't take her seriously back then or I have other girls in my mind.
(As they say having standards is one thing but as my friend had said "Beggars can't be choosy". I don't consider myself a beggar but my virginity kind of sets me the same as them.)
Anyway going back, this hit me because I felt that was already a good time for me to kind of experiment and finally be with a girl. A friend of mine had said that I should at least go and have sex with girls whom I don't like just for experience. Me, being the gentleman nice guy, wouldn't want to hurt a girl's feelings and just f**k them for the sake of experience. I have always gotten this dilemma because I want to be like Cory Skyy who is the "Badboy with a Heart" but I couldn't even see myself hurting a girl's feelings.
Do you guys think that if I want to change and stand up to myself as a MAN, I should and want to be willing to change this "nice guy" mindset. That as a Man I should care less about hurting a woman's feelings and prioritize my need? Even women do this to guys so what am I stressing about right?
I do know that I have change a lot from where I started. But I kind of believe now that this old mindset of mine is the one holding me back to the place I want to be. Or have I got it wrong?
Absolute Self Confidence has been hitting me hard everyday. I continue listening to it nonstop for at least 8 hours a day. There are days wherein I feel I have been listening to it for up to 16 hours a day.
Past weekend has been kind of tough for me again. I happen to came up with a realization of how I manage to screw or f**k up some of the chances that I should have gotten with women. There were instances wherein I didn't pursue any contact with a girl because I wasn't that attracted to her. This was even though I can entirely feel and see that she really wants me. Another one is when I end up unconsciously friendzoning a girl because I couldn't take her seriously back then or I have other girls in my mind.
(As they say having standards is one thing but as my friend had said "Beggars can't be choosy". I don't consider myself a beggar but my virginity kind of sets me the same as them.)
Anyway going back, this hit me because I felt that was already a good time for me to kind of experiment and finally be with a girl. A friend of mine had said that I should at least go and have sex with girls whom I don't like just for experience. Me, being the gentleman nice guy, wouldn't want to hurt a girl's feelings and just f**k them for the sake of experience. I have always gotten this dilemma because I want to be like Cory Skyy who is the "Badboy with a Heart" but I couldn't even see myself hurting a girl's feelings.
Do you guys think that if I want to change and stand up to myself as a MAN, I should and want to be willing to change this "nice guy" mindset. That as a Man I should care less about hurting a woman's feelings and prioritize my need? Even women do this to guys so what am I stressing about right?
I do know that I have change a lot from where I started. But I kind of believe now that this old mindset of mine is the one holding me back to the place I want to be. Or have I got it wrong?
"Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."
