10-04-2012, 03:35 PM
(10-04-2012, 01:21 PM)Sean Wrote: I am very skeptical when it comes to the motivations and communications of a "dancer", my intuition tells me this is at least partially due to my alpha presence. I'm polite, but not beta about it. I wasn't gropey, which most customers are, and it was because I didn't want to cop a feel: I just wanted to touch and be touched by attractive, fit, young women. So my hands stayed mostly on their waists and hips.
I've been friends with "dancers" all my life. So many of the girls I went to school with went that route. Some paid off their grad school that way. I never really went to clubs though, I'd meet them at parties or through friends, etc.
The first time I ever went to a club one of my ex-dancer friends took me and some other friends to the club for my birthday. She coached us in how to talk to the girls, and interact. Pretty much exactly the way you describe your actions.
Polite and friendly, respectful but not reserved. We got a lot of extra attention that night, the girls had a blast hanging out with us. I didn't know anything about "alpha" or "game" or nuthin' back then. I still don't go to clubs, but I'd say a fair amount of the women I've dated were in this profession. Doesn't make for awesome stable relationships, I want more.
Let us know how the "waitress killer" works out with that.
