Sean's AM Journal

[Sean]

Dressing well is important but it is not necessary. it may be necessary to attract incredibly stylish women but most women just want a man to keep a clean appearance. I could be wrong.

Dressing well has different meanings to different people. It can be just making sure that your clothes fit well and complement your physical features. It can also mean wearing very fine clothing that is tailored to you and accessorized very precisely. It can also mean wearing a button up instead of a t-shirt, or wearing chinos instead of jeans.

I'd encourage the guys here who haven't re-evaluated their style since their last graduation to walk into a department store, grab a female or gay sales associate, and ask them to help you find a new look. And then try on everything they recommend. You don't have to buy a damn thing, but you can see some interesting new ways that you might be comfortable and dressed well. You might find that you like one thing, but not another. Or you might find that you're still just a jeans-and-tshirt guy, and there's nothing wrong with that at all.

But why leave those frontiers unexplored? No one is going to ask you to put on a dress.