09-25-2012, 09:53 AM
(09-25-2012, 09:22 AM)Sean Wrote: Last night, a girl was acting goofy at the next table in the restaurant where I was eating. I looked at her with a grin on my face, and she said, "Oh, sorry." I fired back without hesitation, "That's OK, I just wasn't expecting dinner and a show." She replied, "You never know what you'll get when you go to Santana Row." and she had a flirty look on her face. Her boyfriend didn't seem to like it, but I didn't care.
This felt so natural and normal that I almost forgot it happened. I wasn't attracted to her, and this was not an "approach" and the PUA's would phrase it, but the whole feeling of the interaction was very relieving for me. I didn't care about her reaction, and making fun of a strange girl no longer causes me any fear, concern, doubt, or hesitation.
YES! That definitely falls under what I consider to be an alpha attitude. Girls, familiar or unknown, aren't special just for being female. I've known this consciously for a long time, but that did not change the underlying discomfort. This is a big change for me, and it feels very nice, and at the same time, like I've always been this way. And I just realized that this is exactly how Shannon described The Naturalizer working.
It's incredible how much society, our own family and others hand us over self-defeating beliefs. Women are put on pedestals for worship. Crappy things like that has to be removed FAST from your brain and mines too. Not caring is the best way to go. Can't wait to start Alpha on december 19th.
