07-05-2024, 11:21 AM
I think it’s a combination of factors. Obviously it’s not black and white. The partner you’re with, the specific things you’re being vulnerable with, how much they like you and what they like about you, how committed you both are for the long hall and how mature you both are, how you present the issue.
Some women, maybe even most women, you can’t really be that vulnerable with. I think this is due to a lack of developement and the results of a fucked up system that messes people up. But I think if you’re coming from the right place and you’ve got the right woman then you should be good.
Women want men to be vulnerable, it’s in their romance novels! But that doesn’t mean you should start crying in front of her all the time or something lol. They don’t want a man-child, they want a hunk who has human flaws and who they can connect with on a real level.
If I couldn’t be vulnerable with my partner at all then I would just opt for no long term relationship and only mess around with women my whole life, because without vulnerability there can be no true intimacy.
Disclaimer: haven’t directly tested this stuff, just from my understanding of things. But I’m pretty sure I’m right.
Some women, maybe even most women, you can’t really be that vulnerable with. I think this is due to a lack of developement and the results of a fucked up system that messes people up. But I think if you’re coming from the right place and you’ve got the right woman then you should be good.
Women want men to be vulnerable, it’s in their romance novels! But that doesn’t mean you should start crying in front of her all the time or something lol. They don’t want a man-child, they want a hunk who has human flaws and who they can connect with on a real level.
If I couldn’t be vulnerable with my partner at all then I would just opt for no long term relationship and only mess around with women my whole life, because without vulnerability there can be no true intimacy.
Disclaimer: haven’t directly tested this stuff, just from my understanding of things. But I’m pretty sure I’m right.
