10-17-2019, 04:16 PM
(10-17-2019, 01:54 PM)Benjamin Wrote: I had something come up reading a few posts back that I had to bring up.
Referring to yourself as an 'incel' is something you really shouldn't be doing. It's a stupid bs term used by sjws to attack alot of men, and the people who actually identify by it and have forums and such are never the type of people you ever want to be associated to.
And the damage it does to yourself thinking in that way. It's not going to benefit you in any way.
You're just a virgin, and you can do something about that. Thinking of it in the other way will*****you up, especially if you are part of any group that 'identifies' as that. It refers to someone who has totally given up, and you haven't, you're still moving forwards.
My friend was a virgin until around 30. We met some girls one night, I seen the one I was talking to the next day and she said that after my friend said he was a virgin her friend found it hot and if she had the chance would have taken his virginity.
If the ***** concept of 'incel' existed back then and he instead said that. It would have been a big '***** no' because it entails something completely different.
You're right Benjamin. Lesson duly noted. I now choose to drop this label from my sense of identity. Thank you for that. I appreciate what you just told me. Thanks very much!