Really Greenduck, you should stop giving advice. It's not helping, and i've seen you suggest some of the strangest most unhelpful things.
Like cold showers and exercise are great, but they will do jack shit to help with emotional issues, or Evolvingphoenix' attachment to his old friend and emotions around that.
You've already had issues giving advice in the past, and been warned about it. Yet you keep doing it, any chance you tell someone that some chakras are out. Which is more spiritual bypassing bullshit for people to avoid actually dealing with the reality and the emotions and things they're avoiding.
This sums it up perfectly with such a wishy washy sentence after giving him yet more advice.
"I don't know if this is the problem, it might possibly be, i'm not sure, but i'd guess so, maybe something with your chakras."
You've mainly been giving advice to people who are in a really low place and don't have a certain stability in themselves and who want to develop it, so you're coming in and getting thanks from them because they don't know any better, which is unfortunate because you aren't helping them much, and actually misleading them. And really we're getting sick of that, without actually naming, this behaviour and the responses you give when questioned about it are very, very close to someone who got banned a while ago for certain behaviour reminiscent of this.
Because anyone who more experienced is going to call you out on this if you started doing it in their journal.
But really, I know i've probably wasted my time even tying any of that up because I know your response. So i'll just consider instead giving you warnings on your account if you continue to do it.
Like cold showers and exercise are great, but they will do jack shit to help with emotional issues, or Evolvingphoenix' attachment to his old friend and emotions around that.
You've already had issues giving advice in the past, and been warned about it. Yet you keep doing it, any chance you tell someone that some chakras are out. Which is more spiritual bypassing bullshit for people to avoid actually dealing with the reality and the emotions and things they're avoiding.
This sums it up perfectly with such a wishy washy sentence after giving him yet more advice.
Quote:So I don’t know if that’s the problem but reading about your problems with setting boundaries and being affected by people around you, I would guess that working on grounding would benefit you.
"I don't know if this is the problem, it might possibly be, i'm not sure, but i'd guess so, maybe something with your chakras."
You've mainly been giving advice to people who are in a really low place and don't have a certain stability in themselves and who want to develop it, so you're coming in and getting thanks from them because they don't know any better, which is unfortunate because you aren't helping them much, and actually misleading them. And really we're getting sick of that, without actually naming, this behaviour and the responses you give when questioned about it are very, very close to someone who got banned a while ago for certain behaviour reminiscent of this.
Because anyone who more experienced is going to call you out on this if you started doing it in their journal.
But really, I know i've probably wasted my time even tying any of that up because I know your response. So i'll just consider instead giving you warnings on your account if you continue to do it.
