10-12-2019, 08:53 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-12-2019, 09:00 AM by EvolvingPhoenix.)
Dad right now, yelling from across the house "You're gonna make ME do it. You're gonna FUCKING MAKE ME do it! Thanks for all the help!" This guilt trip tactic is nothing new. It is quite common. If I don't IMMEDIATELY do as asked, at beck and call, I must not be willing to do it ever, and therefore am "making" others do the work that they are impatient to see done. I say, if you must have the work done RIGHT NOW, then yes. YOU will have to do it. If you are willing to wait, and have some faith in me, I will do it, in my own timing. I will NOT be controlled and I am NOT a servant. I do not do whatever the master and mistress command, at their beck and call. I have my own life, my own priorities, my own shit to do and my own timing for things I do. If it does not meet my parents' expectations, that is too bad for them. I do not exist to meet THEIR expectations. I exist to meet MY OWN.
