08-06-2019, 07:12 AM
Day 67:
I talked to my online mentor today, and we came to the agreement that I haven’t forgiven my friend for friend dumping me because I haven’t forgiven myself and my online mentor told me that the opposite of guilt is not forgiveness, but taking responsibility. That there’s something about my interactions with my friend that I’m not being honest about and am refusing to look at and am refusing to take responsibility for. Question is: if I’m hiding it from myself, how do I take responsibility for it?
I talked to my online mentor today, and we came to the agreement that I haven’t forgiven my friend for friend dumping me because I haven’t forgiven myself and my online mentor told me that the opposite of guilt is not forgiveness, but taking responsibility. That there’s something about my interactions with my friend that I’m not being honest about and am refusing to look at and am refusing to take responsibility for. Question is: if I’m hiding it from myself, how do I take responsibility for it?