09-16-2018, 04:23 PM
(09-16-2018, 03:30 PM)kingpill Wrote:(09-16-2018, 03:20 PM)Djinnni Wrote:Lol defo. You always need to reframe things as you being the most attractive, etc.(09-16-2018, 02:25 PM)kingpill Wrote:(09-16-2018, 01:57 PM)Infinite Wrote: Thanks for explaining that. I did not see any of these people react to me., but SO did. This might have happened to me today. Some guy looked up at me, but he quickly looked back down at his phone again when he noticed that I was looking at him. Could it have been because he found the aura attractive, but he thought that I was unatractive when he saw who the aura belonged to? I didn't think he was repulsive, but I didn't think that he was attractive. I thought that dmsi adjusted itself so that they find you attractive?
Doubt it tbh, I've felt the aura of some girl before, she was unattractive and I still pursued it like it was almost spiritual. Doubt the aura she projected at me was as strong as DMSI too.
If anything, he prob didn't think he was good enough and thought you would be condensing/rude to him in an almost "why would I date YOU, peasant" kind of way
EDIT: OR he could have had thoughts like hes not good enough for you so why bother looking. lol
Yes, it's definitely healthiest for you to frame/reframe it as yourself being the attractive one - otherwise you're going against the grain of the sub(s).
Also the fact that he reacted by looking down so quickly probably means that he got scared on an instinctual level. He prob felt the aura, thought that this persons high value/super attractive, got scared, then quickly looked at their phone. lol
This most probably also happened on a sub-concious level too
I was about to same thing but I was too lazy to type..
Also, Infinite you should learn to not a give a fcuk about these problems It cause doubts and shit in urself..
You will get there don't worry. Just keep improving urself slowly.