Path to Greatness - Journal

[Shannon]

You have a strong point man. Deep inside I know you are true. But I was highly affected by the society and what is also shown in the popular culture today through books, magazines, internet, television etc. that losing your virginity past your college life means I might end up being forever alone or not succeeding in women at all.

You're operating out of fear. Virginity is something very few guys can offer a woman at your age, have you ever thought of that? That makes you rare and special. You just have to find a woman who will appreciate it and be worth sharing it with.

On the other hand, I said in the other thread, I was raised thinking that sex before marriage was bad. I'm already past it it but only until recently around 2 years ago when I started into subs. So when I realized that sex isn't as bad as I thought and it's okay to give in to my women desires I felt great but at the same time bittersweet because I realized it at a later age. So there is a big pressure within me to be with a woman.

Sex isn't bad at all. It's sex. You are designed for it from the ground up. There is no part of your body that does not in some way support your first purpose in life, which is reproduction. Reproduction is the one thing all physical life shares in common... and without it, there is extinction. That's how basic and important it is. It's not bad, it's a natural fact of life, and the only bad thing is people trying to teach you it's bad. That causes emotional and psychological problems, and causing others problems is bad.

Let go of expectations based on what others think. Other people don't matter for your sex life. Only you, and your thoughts, ideas and beliefs matters for your sex life. You're caught between a very difficult pair of conflicting programs... because there is no denying the urge to reproduce, and there is no denying that someone did a bang-up job telling you that you must deny it.

I will focus on them and been trying hard to ever since. But there's always have been like a tennis fight in my head. My other mind is saying "You're doing great man, keep it up! You're awesome" while the other "You can't do it. You're too old already for her. You can never be with her."

When one takes a strong lead, this will stop.

That's one of the reason why I run through End Self Sabotage. It worked partly because compared to before I have huge negativity. But not so much as I expected. However I only listen to it for 32 days and was running mono speakers. I will try it again man! Now this time using better speakers. Do you think that End Self Sabotage can help me or should I switch to self confidence, remove negativity within or positive thinking/attitude?

One thing I notice is common is for people to assume they can get end-all, be all results from using a program for 32 days. 32 days is the minimum time recommended to use a program like that for... not the standard time. If you haven't finished getting to the results you want... keep going!

I think you should use end self sabotage with remove negativity with for a few months.

I'll strengthen my confidence and subconscious first before I start doing the attraction subs. Be the guy who feels he deserve success in all area of his life. Is that win or not?

I think it is.

It can be. I don't know because I don't know what's in the script. It's not a good idea to try to run programs from different producers at the same time for this reason. The results can be contradictory, nullify eachother, or produce unexpected/negative results.

Actually they are self-hypnosis and not actually subliminals. The ones that wherein there is a voice telling me to relax all my muscles and induce a hypnotic state where my subconscious mind is open for positive suggestions. [snip] Those are hypnosis that are meant to increase my self-confidence..
There are others too like hypnosis meant to release my daily stress and helps me relax but your subliminal recordings are the only subliminal I listen to.

Please remove the links in your previous post. They violate the rules as advertising, considering how close they are to the products I offer.

Self hyponosis is similar to subliminals. You are still programming your mind with it. The concept stands. They can potentially conflict.