I'm just going to copy and paste my field report on the date I just got home from.
It is a first date/meet and lay.
St. Patrick's Day
Nothing at all really turned out as planned. I went out with this chick from OKC. She turned out to be a bit of an oddball. The plan was to go to a speak-easy and then to the night club, but the night club was closed so I decided alright, we'll go to the other one then that's still open. (I guess some places were closed due to St. Patrick's Day?
We have a short little text exchange leading up me picking her up. I figured earlier it would have been cool to have an excuse to go back to either my place or hers to smoke, but it looked like she was bringing a joint anyway. I had also gotten there slightly earlier because I wasn't sure what traffic was going to look like
So, I pick her up, greet her with a big hug and we kiss eachother on the cheek. We get into the car, I start driving, and she's eating (Hasn't eaten yet, I implied we should eat before meeting up), and it's some kind of sesame chicken that smells really good. I'm like oh shit I'll need a bite out of that. She agrees to save me a piece for when we park near the venue. I have her feed it to me with a fork, lol. She then suggests we smoke her joint and I'm like, Uhh..Sure! Thinking in my head Well, fuck, I don't really want to do this yet but it's all good, I know I can handle it, I just probably won't be at the top of my game and this will nullify DMSI, but whatever.
We smoke, and it's good, we're vibing with our conversation really well, we're talking about ourselves, she's digging the idea of my cat, etc. We get to the first venue (The Speak-Easy) and it's crowded. I guess because we were both stoned, she was a bit out of it and how busy it was, was a bit of a sensory overload for her. She wanted to go somewhere else more chill. I was thinking of places on this street and let her know regardless of where we go, it was probably going to be packed because it's St. Patrick's day. I suggest going to the local arcade (Which is POPPIN', has a cafe, is BYOB, pinball machines, retro games, the works) and she likes the idea of that. So we make our way down the street which is one of the more popular and busy streets in the city (Especially on a weekend night), finally get there, and it's closed too :frowning:
At this time she's starting to get anxious because it's cold outside and she wants to chill where it's warm. She says to me, "This isn't going to work." I'm like, "Hm? "Like, I think you're attractive but I don't know if I can do this. I hardly know you and I was hoping we could go to a place more low-key to get to know eachother better and I'm high and I need to use the bathroom really bad"
I say, "Alright, we'll find a place where it's warm and you can use the restroom." The first place we get to has a line to get in, and they wouldn't even let her in to use the restroom because it was at full capacity.
Right now I'm feeling like damn this date is busting. She didn't like the speak-easy, and the nightclub later is going to be even busier probably. Oh well, whatever-- Then I see an awesome joint I've been to a few times before... it's a japanese hibachi and sushi place. I'm like, Hey we can go there! That place is good.
As soon as we go in, she makes a beeline for the restroom and I'm talking to the greeter to get us seats at the bar.
She's in there at first for like 20 minutes, lol. I manage to get a server to help us out (This place was pretty busy too), by starting us out with waters and a drink menu. I order a scotch. Eventually she makes her way back, we order drinks, and well- Whew, the vibe was weird. We migrate over to a warmer part of the bar- I guess she's just super sensitive to the cold because she's fresh here from Miami and has only been here a week. She orders a drink, and then hot tea because she's cold.
She's talking to me and I'm engaging her, asking her questions and drilling in why she thinks this, or how she got into that, etc, just guiding the conversation. She'd ask me questions too, and whenever she gave me a positive remark on anything, I'd ask her or say a variant of "What? Really? What makes you say that." or "Why do you think that?" (I.E like when she complimented me on my car earlier or on my outfit or choice of words). She'd actually swoon every time I used words that were fucking basic to me lol. There were also points where I'd only half pay attention to the things she was saying, because honestly I have a hard time following subjects on religions I know very little about, specifically Judaism. She would go on a tangent about this, her goals, why she's here, their culture, etc. At the end of it all, I would just say, I can tell you're very passionate about this.
She went to use the restroom again and was gone for like 15 minutes, came back and tell me sorry she had to defuse some situation going on with her friend. I was like, it's all good (There was a boxing match going on tv, was super engaged with that). I said I had to use the restroom too, but before I did, I pulled her in and gave her a gentle kiss on the lips, no resistance.
When I got back, we continued chatting, finally the bill came, and she paid for our drinks (As agreed upon). I thought earlier that going to the nightclub would be a bit crazy, so I suggested she go to my place where we could have more drinks and dance in a more private environment. She said something to the tune of, "That would be awesome, but I have to wake up early tomorrow to hold a class and...I need to go to the restroom, let me think about it and I'll decide."
I was thinking, damn this bitch needs to use the restroom a lot lol. I'm like, sure, and push on and say, "And of course you'd be able to meet my cat Goku, and try out my tap water-- I have awesome tap water." She laughs and is like alright I'll be back.
She gets back, we make our way out and head towards my car as quickly as possible. She tells me she really wants to go with me, and her primal urgency is telling her to go, but she wants to go the responsible route this time and go home since it was getting late (like 11 PM). I was like, alright sure no problem.
On the way there, close to her place, I say "When we get there I might need to use the bathroom myself actually." She says unfortunately she can't have any company over because of the hosting family she is staying at, they told her not to bring anyone home. I was like, "Ahh okay, well shoot because I just realized I had to go haha. I'll just find a dark corner or a tree or something and go."
We pull into her driveway, and I move in to kiss her, we make out, I kiss her on the ears, and then back on the lips and grab her neck-- Right then and there she said, "We could go to your back seat, we'll need to go to another drive way or something, I'd feel guilty doing this here."
Ding-Ding-Ding-Ding-Ding. We have a winner. I drive us to another driveway around the corner, park. I go to use the restroom behind the house, come back, we go to the back of my car and we fuck. Was really good, she was really fucking hot: Nice ass, nice tits, could feel the ribs on her sides, every curve, she was very fit. There was one point where she wanted to wear MY socks while we were fucking...I thought that was weird but hot in a way lmao, so I put my socks on her (They're like long black and gray plaid socks) and she looks pretty cute in them while I'm fucking her. She also has a tramp stamp I was like wut when I was fucking her from behind.
TL;DR - First date lay from a chick I met on OKC, nothing on the date really went according to plan, and I couldn't get her to my place and couldn't get into hers, but I still added new notch to my n-count with a fuck in the back of my car and I didn't pay a single fucking dime for any drinks.
Basically, as soon as I grasped her by the neck while we were making out in the car, she was down to fuck.
By the way, she is jewish and extremely religious, and also a teacher of Judaism and culture, very passionate about it. I think the reason why I couldn't go inside to her place was because she didn't want to be looked down upon by her host family.
EDIT: There is one other thing I forgot to mention- I was definitely escalating kino throughout all this. Had my arm around her shoulder, her waist, would touch her thigh, etc. She remarked about it that I was very "Physical" and forward. I just laughed it off and said that this is just how I naturally am. Pivoted that to saying, "Like for example, I'm a hug person...I'll greet everyone with a hug if I can. If I see someone pretty, for example looks at her I can't help it but see how you feel to the touch." There was a lot of other shit I said too that turned her gears all in the direction I wanted to.
I cut out a looooot of game stuff in there. We even played the "Who's the most interesting looking person in the room" game at one point. I was a god with my answer on that one.
I said to her, "Most interesting person in the room? You mean, other than you?"
Looked around the room and then saw the two guys tending to the sushi station, pointed at them, and then got involved with describing the process behind rolling and preparing sushi in intimate detail, and comparing it to creating a piece of art they present; I don’t even make sushi or know how and have never made it before in my life.
It is a first date/meet and lay.
St. Patrick's Day
Nothing at all really turned out as planned. I went out with this chick from OKC. She turned out to be a bit of an oddball. The plan was to go to a speak-easy and then to the night club, but the night club was closed so I decided alright, we'll go to the other one then that's still open. (I guess some places were closed due to St. Patrick's Day?
We have a short little text exchange leading up me picking her up. I figured earlier it would have been cool to have an excuse to go back to either my place or hers to smoke, but it looked like she was bringing a joint anyway. I had also gotten there slightly earlier because I wasn't sure what traffic was going to look like
So, I pick her up, greet her with a big hug and we kiss eachother on the cheek. We get into the car, I start driving, and she's eating (Hasn't eaten yet, I implied we should eat before meeting up), and it's some kind of sesame chicken that smells really good. I'm like oh shit I'll need a bite out of that. She agrees to save me a piece for when we park near the venue. I have her feed it to me with a fork, lol. She then suggests we smoke her joint and I'm like, Uhh..Sure! Thinking in my head Well, fuck, I don't really want to do this yet but it's all good, I know I can handle it, I just probably won't be at the top of my game and this will nullify DMSI, but whatever.
We smoke, and it's good, we're vibing with our conversation really well, we're talking about ourselves, she's digging the idea of my cat, etc. We get to the first venue (The Speak-Easy) and it's crowded. I guess because we were both stoned, she was a bit out of it and how busy it was, was a bit of a sensory overload for her. She wanted to go somewhere else more chill. I was thinking of places on this street and let her know regardless of where we go, it was probably going to be packed because it's St. Patrick's day. I suggest going to the local arcade (Which is POPPIN', has a cafe, is BYOB, pinball machines, retro games, the works) and she likes the idea of that. So we make our way down the street which is one of the more popular and busy streets in the city (Especially on a weekend night), finally get there, and it's closed too :frowning:
At this time she's starting to get anxious because it's cold outside and she wants to chill where it's warm. She says to me, "This isn't going to work." I'm like, "Hm? "Like, I think you're attractive but I don't know if I can do this. I hardly know you and I was hoping we could go to a place more low-key to get to know eachother better and I'm high and I need to use the bathroom really bad"
I say, "Alright, we'll find a place where it's warm and you can use the restroom." The first place we get to has a line to get in, and they wouldn't even let her in to use the restroom because it was at full capacity.
Right now I'm feeling like damn this date is busting. She didn't like the speak-easy, and the nightclub later is going to be even busier probably. Oh well, whatever-- Then I see an awesome joint I've been to a few times before... it's a japanese hibachi and sushi place. I'm like, Hey we can go there! That place is good.
As soon as we go in, she makes a beeline for the restroom and I'm talking to the greeter to get us seats at the bar.
She's in there at first for like 20 minutes, lol. I manage to get a server to help us out (This place was pretty busy too), by starting us out with waters and a drink menu. I order a scotch. Eventually she makes her way back, we order drinks, and well- Whew, the vibe was weird. We migrate over to a warmer part of the bar- I guess she's just super sensitive to the cold because she's fresh here from Miami and has only been here a week. She orders a drink, and then hot tea because she's cold.
She's talking to me and I'm engaging her, asking her questions and drilling in why she thinks this, or how she got into that, etc, just guiding the conversation. She'd ask me questions too, and whenever she gave me a positive remark on anything, I'd ask her or say a variant of "What? Really? What makes you say that." or "Why do you think that?" (I.E like when she complimented me on my car earlier or on my outfit or choice of words). She'd actually swoon every time I used words that were fucking basic to me lol. There were also points where I'd only half pay attention to the things she was saying, because honestly I have a hard time following subjects on religions I know very little about, specifically Judaism. She would go on a tangent about this, her goals, why she's here, their culture, etc. At the end of it all, I would just say, I can tell you're very passionate about this.
She went to use the restroom again and was gone for like 15 minutes, came back and tell me sorry she had to defuse some situation going on with her friend. I was like, it's all good (There was a boxing match going on tv, was super engaged with that). I said I had to use the restroom too, but before I did, I pulled her in and gave her a gentle kiss on the lips, no resistance.
When I got back, we continued chatting, finally the bill came, and she paid for our drinks (As agreed upon). I thought earlier that going to the nightclub would be a bit crazy, so I suggested she go to my place where we could have more drinks and dance in a more private environment. She said something to the tune of, "That would be awesome, but I have to wake up early tomorrow to hold a class and...I need to go to the restroom, let me think about it and I'll decide."
I was thinking, damn this bitch needs to use the restroom a lot lol. I'm like, sure, and push on and say, "And of course you'd be able to meet my cat Goku, and try out my tap water-- I have awesome tap water." She laughs and is like alright I'll be back.
She gets back, we make our way out and head towards my car as quickly as possible. She tells me she really wants to go with me, and her primal urgency is telling her to go, but she wants to go the responsible route this time and go home since it was getting late (like 11 PM). I was like, alright sure no problem.
On the way there, close to her place, I say "When we get there I might need to use the bathroom myself actually." She says unfortunately she can't have any company over because of the hosting family she is staying at, they told her not to bring anyone home. I was like, "Ahh okay, well shoot because I just realized I had to go haha. I'll just find a dark corner or a tree or something and go."
We pull into her driveway, and I move in to kiss her, we make out, I kiss her on the ears, and then back on the lips and grab her neck-- Right then and there she said, "We could go to your back seat, we'll need to go to another drive way or something, I'd feel guilty doing this here."
Ding-Ding-Ding-Ding-Ding. We have a winner. I drive us to another driveway around the corner, park. I go to use the restroom behind the house, come back, we go to the back of my car and we fuck. Was really good, she was really fucking hot: Nice ass, nice tits, could feel the ribs on her sides, every curve, she was very fit. There was one point where she wanted to wear MY socks while we were fucking...I thought that was weird but hot in a way lmao, so I put my socks on her (They're like long black and gray plaid socks) and she looks pretty cute in them while I'm fucking her. She also has a tramp stamp I was like wut when I was fucking her from behind.
TL;DR - First date lay from a chick I met on OKC, nothing on the date really went according to plan, and I couldn't get her to my place and couldn't get into hers, but I still added new notch to my n-count with a fuck in the back of my car and I didn't pay a single fucking dime for any drinks.
Basically, as soon as I grasped her by the neck while we were making out in the car, she was down to fuck.
By the way, she is jewish and extremely religious, and also a teacher of Judaism and culture, very passionate about it. I think the reason why I couldn't go inside to her place was because she didn't want to be looked down upon by her host family.
EDIT: There is one other thing I forgot to mention- I was definitely escalating kino throughout all this. Had my arm around her shoulder, her waist, would touch her thigh, etc. She remarked about it that I was very "Physical" and forward. I just laughed it off and said that this is just how I naturally am. Pivoted that to saying, "Like for example, I'm a hug person...I'll greet everyone with a hug if I can. If I see someone pretty, for example looks at her I can't help it but see how you feel to the touch." There was a lot of other shit I said too that turned her gears all in the direction I wanted to.
I cut out a looooot of game stuff in there. We even played the "Who's the most interesting looking person in the room" game at one point. I was a god with my answer on that one.
I said to her, "Most interesting person in the room? You mean, other than you?"
Looked around the room and then saw the two guys tending to the sushi station, pointed at them, and then got involved with describing the process behind rolling and preparing sushi in intimate detail, and comparing it to creating a piece of art they present; I don’t even make sushi or know how and have never made it before in my life.
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