07-13-2017, 01:03 AM
I'm similar. There's a couple of girls i've been with, and I credit the healing to getting me to a place where i'm now dating a higher quality girl which is good. But it's not like i'm going out and getting tons of attention or having girls all over me.
The other thing that I can give DMSI credit for is bringing me to the point where I finally realized and committed to dealing with my abandonment issues and stepping back from girls for a while when I do that.
I've hit upon it several times during other programs but it's never really been dealt with, it's come up a few times during DMSI but the last time it come up strongly it was finally enough for me to make the decision "I'm dealing with this and this is more important for now than girls and sex."
If it can help me finally deal with that then that will be a big achievement even if it's not obviously achieving the design goals as of yet. But I believe that abandonment is one of my core issues so if dealt with properly i'd be much closer to allowing myself to execute the programming.
The other thing that I can give DMSI credit for is bringing me to the point where I finally realized and committed to dealing with my abandonment issues and stepping back from girls for a while when I do that.
I've hit upon it several times during other programs but it's never really been dealt with, it's come up a few times during DMSI but the last time it come up strongly it was finally enough for me to make the decision "I'm dealing with this and this is more important for now than girls and sex."
If it can help me finally deal with that then that will be a big achievement even if it's not obviously achieving the design goals as of yet. But I believe that abandonment is one of my core issues so if dealt with properly i'd be much closer to allowing myself to execute the programming.
