(08-27-2016, 09:40 AM)Steven Wrote:(08-27-2016, 08:11 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote: ...you gotta validate her sexuality... You gotta accept, approve and validate her inner sexual energy... *validate* her inner sexual being, she is all yours.
I don't know if I know what you mean by this. Could you please give some examples of validating her sexuality or inner sexual energy or inner sexual being?
Sure, man.
Even though women pretty good at flaunting their looks around, most of them are pretty insecure. And on the top of that, her looks doesn't describe her sexuality...
You know, for instance, suppose you see an ugly @ss girl walking down the street. For us, "She is not sexy." But underneath her looks, she is just like any other girl. She is a sexual being. There are certain things that turn her on, turn her off, just like any other normal girl.
Similarly, a good looking, smokin' hot chick is no different. Most men appeal to her looks. Like, "Damn, look at that A$$", "Dude, did you check her tits out? Man, they are a killer." BUT her looks are NOT her sexuality. It doesn't matter how hot she looks, it's not her sexuality.
So, my friend, you need to push the buttons that turn her on. Create a fantasy in her mind that she cannot resist. (Okay, not create a fantasy in her mind, but trigger it.) In order to do that, you first need to ACCEPT that her sexuality is beyond her looks. Second, APPROVE her sexuality, make her trust you on a sexual level. That she'll be okay, that you understand her sexuality, and that you will not judge her. And through this whole process, you VALIDATE her. On a sexual level. Not how society validates her, not how her neighbour or that pervert in the street does. They all appeal to her looks. Not her sexuality.
Hope it make sense!
