08-27-2016, 07:30 AM
I know everyone is different but do you feel that resistance in the form of anger is a bad thing? Those thoughts sound kind of needy, like you would need to to have a woman sleep with you in order to prove that they would love you, sleep with you, and that you are worth something.
Let us not forget the 5 stages of grief:
http://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/
If I had to choose between getting over my issues with anger or getting over my issues with acceptance and love I would choose anger especially in regards to women. If you're too zen about issues women view you as a weak, passive, beta male who can't stand up for himself. They love that slight edge of anger and aggression, it's what makes us masculine. Too much anger and aggression is bad but 0 anger/aggression is worse.
Let us not forget the 5 stages of grief:
http://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/
If I had to choose between getting over my issues with anger or getting over my issues with acceptance and love I would choose anger especially in regards to women. If you're too zen about issues women view you as a weak, passive, beta male who can't stand up for himself. They love that slight edge of anger and aggression, it's what makes us masculine. Too much anger and aggression is bad but 0 anger/aggression is worse.