(08-24-2016, 10:35 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote:(08-24-2016, 06:36 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: Here's the subtext -- a translation of the interaction:
Me: I don't believe you're as mature as you claim. You'll meet with me so I can find out.
Her: I'm not, and it's easier for me to maintain this facade over text... so... please keep providing me with that eD*ck in the form of validation.
Me: B*tch, please. We meet up or I bounce.
Her: :: Throws Tantrum :: ... but okay.
Was talking to Leonidas, he provided this insight: "Her top priority isn't meeting guys straight away [her priority is getting that eD*ck in the form of validation], but getting to "know them", and other BS. So she thinks, like any other person, that the universe operates around her... and therefore it wasn't 'pragmatist' for her own agenda to meet for the coffee right away, and she projected that on you by saying that."
In other words -- "let me waste your time so I can feel good and achieve my agenda."
Fascinating. I am reading this and realizing I am still unable to see the things behind.
If you really want to understand how women think, find yourself a female "best friend." Make sure you're completely non-judgmental with her on all things related to sex, and listen to their stories. You'll quickly discover that the things men talk about in the manosphere are completely true.
Most men fail to realize (or just don't want to admit) that women use their sexuality as a form of currency. They want to lock down the highest value male they possibly can. What does that mean for men? It means that we're the gatekeepers of commitment, validation and attention -- that's OUR currency.
In ANY market, the goal is to get as much as possible by spending as little as possible. Thus, a woman will try to get as much validation and attention as possible while investing as little of their sexuality as possible. This is why sex diminishes as the relationship progresses -- the value of your commitment has decreased, and she feels less obligated (or willing) to put out. Or give you BJs. Or give you anal.
Hence, the "friendzone." Men flooding a woman with ridiculous amounts of attention and validation in exchange for her "companionship," which isn't what the man wants. He wants to f*ck her.
Keeping that in mind, you'll be able to understand the subtext of a lot of sh*t that women say.
"I'm not a sl*t! I'm a good girl." -- Invest more resources in me because I'm worth a lot more than other women because I don't sleep around.
"Ew, look at her -- she's such a sl*t." -- I don't like her because she's giving away the p*ssy too cheap, ruining the market for the rest of us. Why do you think women hate prostitution so much? P.S. Women slut shame waaaay more than men do. We really don't care. The biggest "ho" on Earth will still get locked down by some thirsty dude.
"Friends first, then we'll see where it goes." -- I know exactly where "it'll go." The friendzone. Women do not need an emotional connection to have sex. They're just like men. They'll f*ck you if they're attracted to you. This is an attempt to maximize the number of resources she receives before she'll put out. Except she won't. She'll bang your musclebound neighbor.
"You're a creep. / You're creepy. / That's creepy." -- They see you as a male with no value whatsoever and are disgusted that you'd hit on them. When women try this on me, I go for the nuclear blowout just for sh*ts and giggles.
et. al.
