Day 4:
5 loops. Phone died in the middle of the night. Woke up feeling so-so. Not too tired, not too motivated. Good, overall.
Had a weird dream. I had to carry these super heavy stone slabs up a flight of steep stairs. I couldn't make it up, though. The stones were just too heavy. I DID, however, keep trying and trying until I woke up.
Interesting Tinder conversation, gives great insight into women's sexual strategy of receiving free attention from a man without giving anything in return. This is the SECOND conversation I've had in two days with women over the same topic (you'll have to click to enlarge them):
Context: She was going on and on about how mature she is compared to other women her age (she's 20 -- yes, I'm cradle robbing quite a bit, but we're doing it for the science). That's when I said the top message.
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Here's the subtext -- a translation of the interaction:
Me: I don't believe you're as mature as you claim. You'll meet with me so I can find out.
Her: I'm not, and it's easier for me to maintain this facade over text... so... please keep providing me with that eD*ck in the form of validation.
Me: B*tch, please. We meet up or I bounce.
Her: :: Throws Tantrum :: ... but okay.
Was talking to Leonidas, he provided this insight: "Her top priority isn't meeting guys straight away [her priority is getting that eD*ck in the form of validation], but getting to "know them", and other BS. So she thinks, like any other person, that the universe operates around her... and therefore it wasn't 'pragmatist' for her own agenda to meet for the coffee right away, and she projected that on you by saying that."
In other words -- "let me waste your time so I can feel good and achieve my agenda."
F*ck that.
My priority isn't "becoming friends" with a woman and seeing if that'll turn into a relationship. Sh*t doesn't work like that. If you're constantly finding yourself in the friendzone. Being "friends" first doesn't work. You're an orbiter, a validation machine.
When I'm with a woman, I make myself very clear: I'm not interested in being your friend. I'm interested in being your lover. Accept that, or move on.
Also, you'll get a lot of "Red Pill" guys (not that I totally disagree with their position) claiming that I was responding with too much text, or not being enough of an asshole.
I'll put it like this: I number close. A LOT. Only since I started DMSI has that number closing not converted to dates. And when I go on dates, I generally f-close by the second date.
My strategy? You CAN'T BE A JERKFACE OVER TEXT. It's like I said to her, when you chat online, the essence is gone. She can't see the confident smirk on your face that lets her know that the verbal jab was just a little tease. Saying "you just want validation" online is gonna yield a blowout. Chuckling and saying it in person will initiate a fun conversation. So, online, you play the gentleman role. A gentleman with BOUNDARIES. I'm not giving eD*ck. We meet in person, or not at all. Just wrap it up in some florid prose and boom!
5 loops. Phone died in the middle of the night. Woke up feeling so-so. Not too tired, not too motivated. Good, overall.
Had a weird dream. I had to carry these super heavy stone slabs up a flight of steep stairs. I couldn't make it up, though. The stones were just too heavy. I DID, however, keep trying and trying until I woke up.
Interesting Tinder conversation, gives great insight into women's sexual strategy of receiving free attention from a man without giving anything in return. This is the SECOND conversation I've had in two days with women over the same topic (you'll have to click to enlarge them):
Context: She was going on and on about how mature she is compared to other women her age (she's 20 -- yes, I'm cradle robbing quite a bit, but we're doing it for the science). That's when I said the top message.
Here's the subtext -- a translation of the interaction:
Me: I don't believe you're as mature as you claim. You'll meet with me so I can find out.
Her: I'm not, and it's easier for me to maintain this facade over text... so... please keep providing me with that eD*ck in the form of validation.
Me: B*tch, please. We meet up or I bounce.
Her: :: Throws Tantrum :: ... but okay.
Was talking to Leonidas, he provided this insight: "Her top priority isn't meeting guys straight away [her priority is getting that eD*ck in the form of validation], but getting to "know them", and other BS. So she thinks, like any other person, that the universe operates around her... and therefore it wasn't 'pragmatist' for her own agenda to meet for the coffee right away, and she projected that on you by saying that."
In other words -- "let me waste your time so I can feel good and achieve my agenda."
F*ck that.
My priority isn't "becoming friends" with a woman and seeing if that'll turn into a relationship. Sh*t doesn't work like that. If you're constantly finding yourself in the friendzone. Being "friends" first doesn't work. You're an orbiter, a validation machine.
When I'm with a woman, I make myself very clear: I'm not interested in being your friend. I'm interested in being your lover. Accept that, or move on.
Also, you'll get a lot of "Red Pill" guys (not that I totally disagree with their position) claiming that I was responding with too much text, or not being enough of an asshole.
I'll put it like this: I number close. A LOT. Only since I started DMSI has that number closing not converted to dates. And when I go on dates, I generally f-close by the second date.
My strategy? You CAN'T BE A JERKFACE OVER TEXT. It's like I said to her, when you chat online, the essence is gone. She can't see the confident smirk on your face that lets her know that the verbal jab was just a little tease. Saying "you just want validation" online is gonna yield a blowout. Chuckling and saying it in person will initiate a fun conversation. So, online, you play the gentleman role. A gentleman with BOUNDARIES. I'm not giving eD*ck. We meet in person, or not at all. Just wrap it up in some florid prose and boom!
