07-08-2016, 04:27 PM
(07-08-2016, 03:24 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:18 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:14 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I get this a lot too, it's starting to bother me. Sure the "it's an asd response" mentality helps and feels all warm and fuzzy, but the reality is it's just damn frustrating. Wish I knew how to help these people somehow. :/
(07-08-2016, 03:12 PM)DisneylandUSA Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:03 PM)Shannon Wrote: When they go cold like that, consider that as an ASD response.
Please, explain what is 'ASD response.' thank you.
"Anti-***** Defense". Or, as I like to call it, Anti-***** Disorder, because, imo, it has no place in the 21st century.
You help them by deprogramming the "you're female, so you're not allowed to have a sex drive or sexual responses or initiate sex, or have sex unless he takes ALL the responsibility for EVERYTHING" mindset.
Good luck with that.
:o
Well, haven't they read enough Cosmopolitans by now to help with that? Seriously, women's mags are filled (it seems to me) with an undertone of "we can be free sexually"! What's it all for if it doesn't do anything?
The conscious and subconscious can and do disagree. Which is why I have a job.
It's all for entertainment. That's all those magazines are. They spew the same BS every month, worded differently and with different advertisements. But the reality is, society and religion are not going to just hand her a free pass and she knows it.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!