07-08-2016, 03:24 PM
(07-08-2016, 03:18 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:14 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I get this a lot too, it's starting to bother me. Sure the "it's an asd response" mentality helps and feels all warm and fuzzy, but the reality is it's just damn frustrating. Wish I knew how to help these people somehow. :/
(07-08-2016, 03:12 PM)DisneylandUSA Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:03 PM)Shannon Wrote: When they go cold like that, consider that as an ASD response.
Please, explain what is 'ASD response.' thank you.
"Anti-***** Defense". Or, as I like to call it, Anti-***** Disorder, because, imo, it has no place in the 21st century.
You help them by deprogramming the "you're female, so you're not allowed to have a sex drive or sexual responses or initiate sex, or have sex unless he takes ALL the responsibility for EVERYTHING" mindset.
Good luck with that.
:o
Well, haven't they read enough Cosmopolitans by now to help with that? Seriously, women's mags are filled (it seems to me) with an undertone of "we can be free sexually"! What's it all for if it doesn't do anything?
