07-08-2016, 03:18 PM
(07-08-2016, 03:14 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I get this a lot too, it's starting to bother me. Sure the "it's an asd response" mentality helps and feels all warm and fuzzy, but the reality is it's just damn frustrating. Wish I knew how to help these people somehow. :/
(07-08-2016, 03:12 PM)DisneylandUSA Wrote:(07-08-2016, 03:03 PM)Shannon Wrote: When they go cold like that, consider that as an ASD response.
Please, explain what is 'ASD response.' thank you.
"Anti-***** Defense". Or, as I like to call it, Anti-***** Disorder, because, imo, it has no place in the 21st century.
You help them by deprogramming the "you're female, so you're not allowed to have a sex drive or sexual responses or initiate sex, or have sex unless he takes ALL the responsibility for EVERYTHING" mindset.
Good luck with that.
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