06-22-2016, 05:55 PM
(06-22-2016, 05:28 PM)Womanizer Wrote: I had an attractive 40 year bold hit on me in the past and over qualify herself , she wanted sex for sure but I wasn't into her as well. There's alot of women I'm not into and some I am, I understand. I currently work with this 36 year old and she has 6 kids , no obvious tattoos , no piercings , no inappropriate words of choice and I'm into her. Can I explain why ? Attraction isnt a choice , some women you will be extremely attracted too and others you wont.
She has six kids, and you are attracted to her, for the same reason. Her energy.
When the energy is right, attraction is automatic. When it's wrong, it becomes like the Sahara desert looking for something to get turned on by.
I know a girl I used to be FWB with, and she and I met when I asked her out on a date in college. We didn't really click. We ended up friends.
She's a very sexual girl, and got herself pregnant shortly after our first date. She would tell me about all the guys she was banging, all at once sometimes. Good looking girl. Was I interested? Not in the slightest.
When we did start having sex, it was because both of us were desperate. I'd gone through a years-long dry spell and I was ready to bang a tree, and she was frustrated because her lover was losing interest. We had sex a handful of times, but even that died because we just don't have the right energy between us, and having sex with her is challenging.
The girl I was with before I started having sex with her was the complete reverse. I could not keep her out of my office, or off my penis. It was and to this day still is a guarantee that she and I will have sex if we are together for 2+ hours. And it's all about the energy.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!