04-02-2016, 11:42 AM
(04-02-2016, 11:28 AM)LionKing Wrote: I'm thinking porn also conditions this. As all media that places beautiful women as sex goddesses, with the implication that we are nothing if we can't get them. But I really felt this yesterday as I was watching a bit of porn and was happy because I found many clips of just super super hot women I really liked - but damn was I disgusted about how I felt! "Oh she's so hot/great.. (I couldn't ever get that)". And that shame/regret thing that often comes after porn - I think its just this wanting approval of those goddess women in the clips, and then subconsciously knowing that they weren't really giving me approval, and they wouldn't in real life. Well, I do trust that I'm a great guy, but I mean they wouldn't show me instant attraction and approval in some glamorous social setting with plenty famous, high-status and manly porn stars around etc. And not having that ideal = not getting approval. I wanted to say that's guy Disney. So for women Disney would be the big fancy princess wedding, but for a guy it'd be this big pile of validation/approval of all the respect and attraction one should be getting in a party, think Tony Stark.
Anyway, feels empowering. And AM feels better and better.
I think you will agree that all super super hot women can be found anywhere and that they all don't do porn!!
Keep and open mind and go for it the next time you encounter a super super hot woman in real life!!
INTP-A
When you imagine something vividly... your subconscious will bring it into reality.
When you imagine something vividly... your subconscious will bring it into reality.