(09-28-2014, 11:58 AM)stratos Wrote: [ -> ]Tap on the heavy feeling or pstec on it. If you have a light and flirty way of being, and pstec one day brings up deep & heavy stuff to the surface inadvertently, in my opinion it's a gift because you can remove it and get back to the light and flirty state. tap or pstec on it being there, not knowing what it is, not liking it, etc.
Thanks for your response. I already did some FEFT on that feeling the week. First it didn't help much. Today much sex stuff came to the surface and I tapped it away. Later the day I went out and realized that I feel better today. It was after my last post so I didn't get it before. I am still not there where I have been, but I feel much more closer to that state but I also feel more solid than before. Tomorrow I will see if there is still something (about the deep and heavy stuff) I can do some FEFT or PSTEC to get even better. But good to know that I did the right thing because I wasn't sure what to think about that.
sebastian, we would love to hear MORE about you and your process
Had not have much time in the last few days. Tried to better my financial situation through some changes. At the end nothing of them worked. Tried to get a credit with a lower interest rate to pay all my credit card debts at once but got rejected. Wanted to make some changes to my work contract which should bring me more money. But also this turned to be a bad idea because in best case it would bring me a few euros more in a month and in worst case it would had make things worse... There was a much frustration and depression in the given days, because I felt like I can do anything I want to get more money but nothing of the ideas work or made the things worse. I was tapping about a hour on all money and wealth stuff that came in my mind but it didn't help as much as expected. Then I realized that I felt trapped and didn't want to accept the situation and I started tapping on not wanting/not being able to accept the situation I was/am in. This was a real breakthrough and I feel MUCH better now. A funny thing here is that I remembered afterwards reading an article about energy systems (TCM stuff) and the kidney energy circle was associated to sex and also to money. Found it interesting because especially in these two areas I was not really successful in the past.
When it comes to other things so the days before the money thing were mixed. Some days I had a pretty good vibe and another days I felt heavy. Yesterday I was at a party (the tapping stuff was already done at this time). I got approached by different people that night. They just started talking to me. Most of the conversations weren't long but I felt pretty comfortable. I even approached a group of people where I only knew one or two people. In the past I would had feel uncomfortable doing it, but this time it was different. I also spent some time with some women there. We had much body contact and many touches. Most of the time it was just really, really comfortable but we had also some flirty moments and some with this specific kind of tension... It just felt really good and I enjoyed the night and didn't even think much on things like getting laid. Just really enjoyed it all. So far.
Cool results from PSTEC.
As for finances: been there bro. I started SM 3 a little over 16,000 in debt. I'm currently 10.
Anyhow, one of the things that helped me was to realize that it's a monthly cash-flow thing when it comes to money.
It makes absolutely NO difference if you're making 20 grand or 2o million, if your monthly cash-flow is NOT positive, you are building a poor (as in, POVERTY) lifestyle. However, if you can get it in the positive and think of money in THAT way, you'll live prosperously no matter what.
I suggest you read:
- Rich Dad, Poor Dad
- The Richest Man in Babylon
- Multiple Streams of Income by Robert G. Allen
- Creating Wealth by Robert G. Allen
- Rich Dad's Cashflow Quadrant
However, all you really need to know to start are a few things:
First, list ALL your monthly expenses. I'm talking bank fees, cups of coffee, EVERY LAST THING. account for ALL the money you spend.
Make a word document and list them. Let yourself wallow in despair if you must, but look at it for a while and try to comprehend how all that spending is hurting you.
Then, work to eliminate the fees.
Emotionally, it'll feel better to just make some victories, so if you just wanna feel better about your finances, then pay off or eliminate the smallest ones first. However, if you want to get REALLY prosperous, the longer route is better in the long run, and that is: find out how much interest everything costs you. the highest ones get paid off FIRST without exception. structure your finances and make a list of debts and which get paid.
Also, make word documents for "Next Cheque Finances". You should know where all your money from your next cheque is going. it's easy to do once you know what debts you will be paying off.
I've structured my finances and now I'm working on eliminating my monthly fees. So far I've eliminated more than $300/month of small fees here and there (old gym memberships, expensive phone plans, buying bulk food online instead of retail, etc) and it adds up.
Take my phone, for example. I was paying $72.99/month on a plan I JUST got a few weeks ago. Of course, to cancel the plan and switch I had to pay a cancellation fee that ended up being nearly $300! Now, most people get scared by that, but since I know to look before I leap, I did the math. If I were to stay in my plan, paying $72.99/month, I'd have to pay about $2700 to the term completion. Switching plans saved me $1800 IMMEDIATELY, but if you account for my early cancellation fees, I only saved about $1500. STILL, that's $1500 in my pocket over 3 years, OR about $45/month.
I'm also working towards getting a bank account with no fees. It's going to take some time, but once it's done, that's another $15/month I'm earning. You really have to see saving money as earning it, to be honest.
Think of it this way: a penny saved, is a penny earned.
Curious: So how much is your monthly plan now sarge? Phone plans in Canada are usually that expensive.
(10-09-2014, 11:04 PM)lokko Wrote: [ -> ]Curious: So how much is your monthly plan now sarge? Phone plans in Canada are usually that expensive.
$25/month. Unlimited Talk and Text nationwide.
First at all thanks for your detailed post Sarge, I appreciate it. I must say I have already done some of the things in the past. I have got a bank account without any charges (except the interest rate for the debts), my mobile contract has got no basic fees but nevertheless it has got a very basic internet flat included, my phone+internet at home has the best basic plan you can get here without some special limitation. I have done this before I got back to the university. It may sounds like a not a good idea to study having not the best financial foundation, but believe it or not, before I started to study I was even worse and it was for several reasons my best option to do so. I am not only studying but working, too, so I can pay my bills, but there isn't much space for unexpected stuff. So I wanted to work few hours more, but due to some laws here that interact with my status as a student it would bring me less money in worst case - like I already wrote. Anyway, I will check my outgoings again, so I can maybe find some small things where I can make savings. The credit card I wrote about is the biggest thing I have to pay for and has the most expensive interest rate in comparison to the other stuff. Which of the books would you recommend at first? My gut tells me Rich Dad, Poor Dad would be great.
Oh, by the way, I did FEFT not PSTEC to tap it away. But I am pretty sure it was the PSTEC session two weeks ago that brought the "Not wanting to accept"-stuff as part of the heavyness I got.
Yeah I listed those books in order of importance imo. Rich Dad really gets you to be like "What??? REALLY?!? WTF HAVE I BEEN DOING??" but doesn't offer much in the way of solutions aside from the general rule of thumb: Keep your monthly cash flow in the positive and spend your money on assets not liabilities.
Richest Man in Babylon is also a rule of thumb book. In fact, instead of reading that, you could just adopt the policy that you'll set aside 10% from all you make and pay it to yourself (after you've dealt with the debts, that is), as that's pretty much all the book boils down to, although it's a fun read.
The Robert Allen books are great if you want to go for real estate like myself, if not, just get the Multiple Streams of Income one, it's more about building wealth than building wealth is lol. BW is about building wealth with real estate.
Cash Flow Quadrant is just a book that drives RDPD point home with some added things.
So, it really depends on what you're after.
Ok, thanks, I will begin with Rich Dad, Poor Dad and will decide later what comes thereafter.
I have been using PSTEC yesterday and cleared some issues regarding women. I did 2xbasic, 2xeef and one negative track because there came issue after issue after I started. Anyway, I felt some huge releases.
Today I purchased MIR because I got sick. That doesn't go along with saving money but as I get paid hour based it was probably a good choice to do so because I can start work sooner again. In the morning I was at a point where I usually just get worst but this time I didn't get worse even if I don't feel really good yet. I wish I had purchased it one or two days ago so I had probably prevent the outbreak.
I am just thinking about how many time I should add to SM. It's because today would be the last day for stage 1 if I didn't got sick. So should I add 1 day x 1,5 or the amount of days I am using MIR x 1,5?
That should be fine Sebastian.. I did that once so far nothing really bad happened.. but it took me few days again to feel better or mildly euphoric starting AM6 again. Same rule applies for any sub.
(10-13-2014, 09:07 PM)jonathan4all Wrote: [ -> ]That should be fine Sebastian.. I did that once so far nothing really bad happened.. but it took me few days again to feel better or mildly euphoric starting AM6 again. Same rule applies for any sub.
Well, maybe I did not make it clear. But since it was the last day of this stage I would just miss one single day - in theory. But lets say I do MIR for four days, so do I do the one day (because I had just one day left) x 1,5 or should I do the four days x 1,5 - even if the stage would be done after one day. Hope it's more clear.
You do 32 days per stage, if you missed 4 then you add 4*1.5 so a total of 38 days instead of 32.