09-22-2019, 12:26 PM
(09-22-2019, 06:16 AM)Shannon Wrote: I advise you to use UMS for at least a month after you arrive and then assess the situation. Switching your focus away from making money when you're at such a critical juncture in your journey and transition, especially switching it to something like sex, especially when DMSI is not work safe... and you're going to a culture that is not exactly terribly open to overt sexuality like China... may not be the wisest move.
Play it safe. Get there, get settled in, and feel things out before you make a decision like that.
Good point about Chinese culture - I've had 2-3 Chinese responders around here due to the international nature of the business I'm in, and there are *major* differences in how they react, and how their males react when they see it (although the Chinese are actually pretty chill compared to South Koreans as far as this stuff is concerned, TBH). This advice is on-point - settle in first, get a firm feeling for your situation and how stuff works around there, then reappraise.
"A man who is doing his True Will has the inertia of the Universe to assist him." - A. Crowley
