09-15-2019, 06:51 PM
Sounds like she was happy to pretend to encourage you to score points, but was banking on you not following through on it. Now that you have called her bluff, the truth is coming out, that she never wanted you to leave or help you do so. Maybe it's some selfishness, maybe it's some crab mentality, maybe both.
If it's what you want, you will find a way. If you do it alone, you "owe" nobody else, either financially, or mentally, that makes it so much sweeter.
I've been where you are, when I was trying to get my first few businesses off the ground way back. It's an awkward stage, kinda in between two worlds so to speak, so it can be hard to get traction as there's no track record to "sell" others on, it's really just potential at best...
You may need to take these steps alone, my friend...
If it's what you want, you will find a way. If you do it alone, you "owe" nobody else, either financially, or mentally, that makes it so much sweeter.
I've been where you are, when I was trying to get my first few businesses off the ground way back. It's an awkward stage, kinda in between two worlds so to speak, so it can be hard to get traction as there's no track record to "sell" others on, it's really just potential at best...
You may need to take these steps alone, my friend...
