Shannon's Journal

[ncbeareatingman]

cool,. safe travels you Leo- Mofo;-) question. IM soooo curious about the Alpha Male set to come in 2012,but my question pertains to the AM set over all. Can a Man use it twice in one year? EX: start it in januray finish Up in June'/early July- then take a two month break,then start all over again in either late august/early september and play it on out into late winter of the following year?
would that be over doing? would it be too much for the man/Brain to process over a 12 month period or more,even though the Man would take a 2 month break-down time-in between cycle's.
seriously intersted in geting your feedback.
I think this is an excellent question and I've never seen it posed anywhere thus far in the forum.
If it has been posed before,I never saw it. thanks. NcBear.

You could use it twice in a year, if you wanted to, but that's not the best way to use it. I would suggest allowing yourself at least 3 months time off to allow the integration of everything.

OK Cool got it,thank you. NcBear

[Shannon]

Ok cool.

I will have mine just saying "Ben" as that's the name I prefer,and using my full name is too much like being told off by my parents when I was younger.

If you want me to pay for it before you start, let me know.

And don't worry, I will definately remind you of it.

I am quite curious how a 6 stage ideal weight set would pan out between the stages, guess I will find out.

-Ben

Work is one thing I don't do for free. All customs must be paid in full before work begins.

But please keep in mind that this is a six stage set, which must be designed from a single stage program and built. This will be a significant upgrade, and I know that this has to be as well done as possible, so don't expect a fast turn-around time. I'm also not sure yet how to deal with certain aspects of the program, even after spending the last three days thinking about it deeply. I actually have four variants of this program planned, and trying to separate them is half of what has me puzzled.

[Shannon]

I have been having a hard time running SM consistently on this trip, but I am still seeing results that sometimes genuinely surprise me. I have noticed that I am very much the "shining star" in most situations where I am around others, as long as I am not exhausted. By that I mean, my presence is very loud - my aura is obvious, my body language is very strong, my speech comes very easily in situations where previously I would not have opened my mouth, and I notice I speak in a very loud, attention-commanding voice now - again, as long as I am not exhausted. Getting looks from women a lot more, too, and they're staring just a little too long.

Ironically, I find myself torn between finishing (restarting?) sex magnet, and stopping it to run Attract Your Primary Soul Mate. I had a realization while I was in Death Valley... I don't want just sex. I want sex to be a natural expression of physical and emotional intimacy that is an organic component of the greater whole of the relationship. Which is surprising only because I thought that while I was healing, sex alone would be fun. But, there's no kidding myself, sex without some sort of emotional connection is self destructive for me, and always has been. I wonder how true that is of other straight men, but they just don't know it because our society has taught them that they're not (allowed to/not supposed to/do not) have valid emotions.

Kinda odd, because right now, I love being single and free, and I want to travel more, but I also want a stable settled long term romantic and sexual relationship and to have some children. I can never get a break - it's always that the mind and the emotions are arguing within me as to what I want in life. lol

Off to run 11 hours driving. This is getting very tiresome.

[Ryan]

Ultra Success with Alpha Male 12, yes? I'm thinking that may give me an extra boost on life esp. concerning animation school and my ebook.

Ryan

[About]

Ironically, I find myself torn between finishing (restarting?) sex magnet, and stopping it to run Attract Your Primary Soul Mate. I had a realization while I was in Death Valley... I don't want just sex. I want sex to be a natural expression of physical and emotional intimacy that is an organic component of the greater whole of the relationship. Which is surprising only because I thought that while I was healing, sex alone would be fun. But, there's no kidding myself, sex without some sort of emotional connection is self destructive for me, and always has been. I wonder how true that is of other straight men, but they just don't know it because our society has taught them that they're not (allowed to/not supposed to/do not) have valid emotions.

Doesn't sex magnet give you the opportunity to meet more women which allows you to screen for your perfect/primary soul mate? It seems like to me that it would just be a longer process when you run it via SM (trial and error) instead of using the primary soul mate sub which i assume would just get whoever is perfect for you asap, is that right or am i shooting in the dark?

[WildFlower]

Ironically, I find myself torn between finishing (restarting?) sex magnet, and stopping it to run Attract Your Primary Soul Mate. I had a realization while I was in Death Valley... I don't want just sex. I want sex to be a natural expression of physical and emotional intimacy that is an organic component of the greater whole of the relationship. Which is surprising only because I thought that while I was healing, sex alone would be fun. But, there's no kidding myself, sex without some sort of emotional connection is self destructive for me, and always has been. I wonder how true that is of other straight men, but they just don't know it because our society has taught them that they're not (allowed to/not supposed to/do not) have valid emotions.

Doesn't sex magnet give you the opportunity to meet more women which allows you to screen for your perfect/primary soul mate? It seems like to me that it would just be a longer process when you run it via SM (trial and error) instead of using the primary soul mate sub which i assume would just get whoever is perfect for you asap, is that right or am i shooting in the dark?

That's my opinion of Sex Magnet also. It both makes me have the pick of the field but also makes me more picky. For me it's a tool to meet a lot of Women, with the intention of, eventually, finding one I'm prepared to settle with. I think a cool addition to the 2012 version would be a few lines which focus on that. Sex Magnet plus, if you want it, the ability to attract relationship material girls. I don't know if that would de-balance the set though.

[Roy]

If you use an attraction sub, it will produce what is perfect for you as you are when you use it. The "perfection" will apply so long as you are within a reasonable range of your current level of growth as a person. If you do major self growth after attracting someone, they may or may not remain perfect for you based on the specific growth areas and their specific areas of perfection in regards to you.

It took me four years of hardcore growth to outgrow my perfect lover, and at this point, it would seem unlikely that I could ever outgrow a current perfect Romantic Lover because I've achieved a state of being close to, if not fully self realized in a lot of the areas that were being worked on in the past.

So, prep is a good idea, but not always necessary. The younger you are, the more you'll want to prep first to make it long term, or if you don't care how long it lasts, don't worry about it.

Shannon,can you specify about how you define the self growth,what self
growth is relevant to upgrading the results and how does the self growth
affects the results exactly?

[Benjamin]

Work is one thing I don't do for free. All customs must be paid in full before work begins.

But please keep in mind that this is a six stage set, which must be designed from a single stage program and built. This will be a significant upgrade, and I know that this has to be as well done as possible, so don't expect a fast turn-around time. I'm also not sure yet how to deal with certain aspects of the program, even after spending the last three days thinking about it deeply. I actually have four variants of this program planned, and trying to separate them is half of what has me puzzled.

Yeah I understand that, just waiting for you to put it in the shop so I can spend the money in my bank on it.

I get it might take a while, but atleast when i've paid for it I will feel better, since i'm looking for a job and waiting to see if I can get the dole atleast until then, which will take another week or so. So atleast when I pay for the custom I won't have to worry about not spending that money.

Yeah, I guess sometimes weight loss can be a complicated thing, when it comes to reprogramming the mind. I've spent alot of time trying to find ways to do it and haven't had much success still. Normal EFT didn't do it. Matrix Reimprinting is helping more but still hasn't shifted.

I definately know what it's like to have alot of problems with my weight over most of my life, so if you need some insight to some of the problems faced or whatever then just ask. I don't know what I can offer, but it may help.

As for the four programs, I reakon all of them would still have certain core issues around the weight. One big thing for me would be really being able to see myself in shape, slim, muscular, how I want to be. And really being able to believe it's possible. I'd say that would be the first step.

And there's feeling safe without the weight, for example, I put on alot of weight from doing bouncing as I was always in confrontations and intense situations, also along with that is ptsd which made me put on more.

And there's the actually wanting and craving healthy food and not the junkfood, that is a big one! As much as I know it's good to eat healthy, I just don't crave it like I crave chocolate, pizza or whatever. And since i've ate bad for so long it's hard to know what to eat that is good with the conflicting information.

Anyway, i've just lost my train of thought, gotta go for now, have a friend getting here in a minute, I can add more later, any questions that may help, just ask.

-Ben

[RainbowAbyss]

How about sex magnet 2012 has a focus on attraction sexual relations with a powerfull emotional connection. I always like a fair does of connection/emotion with sex, it seems stupid not to have it, and I think a lot of guys, perhaps suprisingly, would agree

[WildFlower]

How about sex magnet 2012 has a focus on attraction sexual relations with a powerfull emotional connection. I always like a fair does of connection/emotion with sex, it seems stupid not to have it, and I think a lot of guys, perhaps suprisingly, would agree

[Benjamin]

I agree that sex is better with a emotional connection.

But I find the intensity draining sometimes, I don't know if it's just me, but I can't see a girl every day because it's usually intense, I need time alone to recover. So if it was several, I can just imagine it would wear me out.

And if it's just sexual, then the emotional connection could make it more complicated. Though I have enjoyed the girls who have been 'friends with benefits' that I can also hang out with and are cool and funny as a person, it wouldn't be the same to do it and just leave straight away, it's good to hang out with them too.

-Ben

[mat422]

Ironically, I find myself torn between finishing (restarting?) sex magnet, and stopping it to run Attract Your Primary Soul Mate. I had a realization while I was in Death Valley... I don't want just sex. I want sex to be a natural expression of physical and emotional intimacy that is an organic component of the greater whole of the relationship. Which is surprising only because I thought that while I was healing, sex alone would be fun. But, there's no kidding myself, sex without some sort of emotional connection is self destructive for me, and always has been. I wonder how true that is of other straight men, but they just don't know it because our society has taught them that they're not (allowed to/not supposed to/do not) have valid emotions.

Society has definitely caused a lot of problems for men in general, so I wouldn't be surprised. Sex with a lot of women is just something most guys are pressured with. I think the act of sex just affirms their masculinity or validates their ego. But then again I can't speak for the masses and I hate assuming, so none of that should be taken to heart. The one thing I did realize is it's almost impossible to pull someone out of that conditioning if they aren't willing to help themselves. They have to see it themselves before they can learn. Then there are some guys who don't even believe in love, only because they have been wronged in the past and now they carry negativity around in them.

I know for certain I have trouble expressing emotions for whatever reason. I think it's a poisonous thing and nobody should have to feel that way. Men are taught to be very stoic, but it just doesn't allow us freedom of expression. I think every guy wants a meaningful relationship, but sometimes women don't see that because of the way society has taught men to act.

[RainbowAbyss]

Emotions in a sexual scenario doesn't mean meaningful relationship or necessarily mean anything in my experience, its not 'attachment', its just that heart, happiness, and joy that goes with the raw animal polarity. Its that sense of chemistry that's a step beyond the purely physical and sexual-like "wow, we work together". If anything its more freeing. I believe love is the context and a way of being between two people, its something one does and learns to live with rather than cupids magic arrow, although I definitely think some peoples souls were meant to be together in this lifetime.

[Shannon]

Ultra Success with Alpha Male 12, yes? I'm thinking that may give me an extra boost on life esp. concerning animation school and my ebook.

Ryan

Should work. I am considering reworking US into a Type B and a Type B/D version.