I still think that fear makes us evasive and avoid. This makes us focus on what we do not want, I am afraid of failing and therefore I do not try, I am afraid of succeeding and therefore I do not try or self-sabotage if I have had any success. I am afraid of having a successful relationship and I either don't try or self-sabotage. The fear It makes us focus on what we don't want, and fear makes us not face each other, not facing each other makes us be evasive and all this together makes us attract inertia and in an unconscious way everything we fear. Therefore I believe that the way to overcome these fears is to confront them and demystify them, the fears are much bigger in our heads and most are irrational or disproportionate.
Fear also makes us imagine what scares us and consequently attract it, however when facing this fear and acting head on it loses its suggestive and irrational power and power of attraction, because when facing it it disappears or is transformed, but in any case it loses its initial power. The new fear may be another, but it will no longer be the same that controls us, it will be another that we can face again. This will give us progressive confidence and the fear will disappear and will no longer control us.
I think you are talking about two different fears, the initial fear, the reptilian had his raison d'être for survival, now there are no lions behind the undergrowth, therefore there is no need to run or ignore them, you have to look and see what is there.
The only way I have to develop my thinking and my presentations well is to write in Spanish and then go through the google translator, so excuse me for any inconsistencies, but I think it is the best way to convey my ideas without getting lost in the translation.
Fear also makes us imagine what scares us and consequently attract it, however when facing this fear and acting head on it loses its suggestive and irrational power and power of attraction, because when facing it it disappears or is transformed, but in any case it loses its initial power. The new fear may be another, but it will no longer be the same that controls us, it will be another that we can face again. This will give us progressive confidence and the fear will disappear and will no longer control us.
I think you are talking about two different fears, the initial fear, the reptilian had his raison d'être for survival, now there are no lions behind the undergrowth, therefore there is no need to run or ignore them, you have to look and see what is there.
The only way I have to develop my thinking and my presentations well is to write in Spanish and then go through the google translator, so excuse me for any inconsistencies, but I think it is the best way to convey my ideas without getting lost in the translation.
