(11-01-2016, 03:25 AM)Shannon Wrote: Logistics.
I personally don't have good logistics right now. Even if everything else had gone off without a hitch, I don't have a clean house, and that usually turns women off. Had I been alone, I could probably have gotten my server who was the manifestation to continue the interaction after she got off work, and possibly led it to more intimate things, but... did I want to wait the 30 to 45 minutes for her, outside the restaurant, while she was removed from my aura and losing interest? That's not very likely. I don't wait around like a puppy for women anymore, regardless of the chance of having sex if I do.
Logistics optimization is planned for the 3.x branch, though. Perhaps not necessarily in 3.0, but definitely in the 3.x branch.
So these "near misses" are primarily a function of the circumstances in my life these days, and logistics. They indicate that DMSI is working, but needs optimization.
Yes
Logistics is as important as attraction, especially when it comes to bedding new women you don't see on a regular basis. Different cities also have different logistics, in NYC everyone is packed together and girls get a sense of security having to sign in and out of a building as a guest. In other cities everyone is more spread out and its not out of the question for people to live 40 miles in either direction making a 1 night hookup more of a hassle.
That's one reason why I think DMSI needs more than just pure sexual attraction, girls are attracted to guys all the time but if you're just "that hot guy" its very easy for them to ignore you and wait for the next with easier logistics. I'm sure you've all heard women say something along the lines "omg he was the hottest guy i ever saw" and then nothing even happened except she passed by him.
Emotions are the worlds #1 currency and if you can make her feel good than you move beyond just being "eye candy" and move into being "life candy". Not in terms of long term relationship/marriage but in terms of good emotions and life-experience.
We've all seen a girl obsess and be all over a guy and it wasn't because he was the sexiest one available, it's because he made her feel things other guys couldn't. If you can do that her taking an 80 mile trip is suddenly no big deal. I'm willing to bet if people look at their past hookups it usually wasn't times when you were actively trying to create attraction but rather you were just out having a good time, you showed her a good time, she had a blast and "it just happened".
