Thanks Raz,
The thing is, as long as I get really triggered by it, the problem isn't resolved.
I see him more as the messenger, (unknowingly) showing me what I need to work on.
I think that when I resolve this issue in myself, that my response will automatically be in line with something you described above and that it doesn't take effort. Cause the pattern is no longer there to be played out.
My experience is when I force myself to overcome things like this, it kind of works in the beginning, until you get in another similar situation and experience the whole thing again, since you still carry this pattern
- or emotional hurt or whatever you wanna call it - with you even though you handled it in the outside world, from the inside you're still the same.
Does the subliminal take care of this whole thing for me from the inside out? Or does it force me to take action and handle situations like this in the outside world? Cause I don't feel empowered at all to act the way you described. In the past when I forced myself through stuff, it never changed me much from the inside and didn't give me permanent self-esteem.
The thing is, as long as I get really triggered by it, the problem isn't resolved.
I see him more as the messenger, (unknowingly) showing me what I need to work on.
I think that when I resolve this issue in myself, that my response will automatically be in line with something you described above and that it doesn't take effort. Cause the pattern is no longer there to be played out.
My experience is when I force myself to overcome things like this, it kind of works in the beginning, until you get in another similar situation and experience the whole thing again, since you still carry this pattern
- or emotional hurt or whatever you wanna call it - with you even though you handled it in the outside world, from the inside you're still the same.
Does the subliminal take care of this whole thing for me from the inside out? Or does it force me to take action and handle situations like this in the outside world? Cause I don't feel empowered at all to act the way you described. In the past when I forced myself through stuff, it never changed me much from the inside and didn't give me permanent self-esteem.