01-18-2013, 06:04 PM
Awesome Sean. You handled the first one well, sounds like your handling her alot better than in the past. 
The second one I can really identify, i've got several ex's that contact me randomly and basically want sex and in the past I used to usually go and do it and then regret it. But now I finally realized and am mostly able to resist the temptation. Though it's still kind of tempting.
Especially if they were crazy and incredibly clingy, it's just not worth it. I'd regret it as soon as I slept with them.
And the third woman it sounds like the job was just a convenient excuse. I think she wants you but usually they come up with an excuse.
It's kind of like one of my ex's I mentioned, she randomly sent me a facebook message "I know you want nothing to do with me but can you help me with my computer, somebody gave me a keyboard and monitor and I just need the box, maybe you can help?".
It seems simple enough, but I realized it's just her trying to get back in because she knows i'm into computers and it may start a conversation. Afterall it is incredibly simple for her to find that out nearly anywhere or do a google search.
So I decided not to answer because it is so obvious to me it's not just about the computer.
-Ben
The second one I can really identify, i've got several ex's that contact me randomly and basically want sex and in the past I used to usually go and do it and then regret it. But now I finally realized and am mostly able to resist the temptation. Though it's still kind of tempting.
Especially if they were crazy and incredibly clingy, it's just not worth it. I'd regret it as soon as I slept with them.
And the third woman it sounds like the job was just a convenient excuse. I think she wants you but usually they come up with an excuse.
It's kind of like one of my ex's I mentioned, she randomly sent me a facebook message "I know you want nothing to do with me but can you help me with my computer, somebody gave me a keyboard and monitor and I just need the box, maybe you can help?".
It seems simple enough, but I realized it's just her trying to get back in because she knows i'm into computers and it may start a conversation. Afterall it is incredibly simple for her to find that out nearly anywhere or do a google search.
So I decided not to answer because it is so obvious to me it's not just about the computer.
-Ben
