06-07-2015, 12:40 PM
(06-07-2015, 11:17 AM)CatMan Wrote: I don't understand why you don't want to do a sub while single. What happens when you see a girl you really like, but can't attract her because you haven't developed yourself with subs enough to be able to actually HAVE this relationship you want so badly? What happens when you somehow find a girl despite not developing yourself through subs, grow out of her through subs since you only want to use subs in a relationship, and then you have to dump her anyway? Doesn't it make more sense to develop yourself as much as possible BEFORE finding a girl so you can attract and keep the best one you can find?
I was only referring to AM and WM when I said about running subs while single. I may only need need another run or I may need two of each. AYP's don't require a foundation so they should work if I run them long enough.
(06-07-2015, 11:17 AM)CatMan Wrote: Also, going back to London may be a real good move. I cringed when I read how you left your job in the city and went to that new small place with no people around etc. I knew how it'd end...I know what it's like to grow and change in a small town, I've done that in the past, you run out of room to grow into pretty quickly.
Yes another one of those life lesson's about money not being everything. I realised how much I'd grown away from the small town guy part as soon as I started the new place. I'm financially laughing but socially and spiritually broke.