03-15-2012, 12:13 AM
(03-14-2012, 01:23 AM)Shannon Wrote: You're operating out of fear. Virginity is something very few guys can offer a woman at your age, have you ever thought of that? That makes you rare and special. You just have to find a woman who will appreciate it and be worth sharing it with.
Others have pointed that out too. I guess it all comes down to how I look at myself for being a virgin. In this case I should consider myself as somewhat of a prize instead of self-pity. Thanks man.
Yes I do feel like I have a strong fear within me not only when it comes to relationships but also in other areas of my life. I fear I might lose money, I fear something bad might happen.
I'm tired of living in fear bro.
Quote:Sex isn't bad at all. It's sex. You are designed for it from the ground up. There is no part of your body that does not in some way support your first purpose in life, which is reproduction. Reproduction is the one thing all physical life shares in common... and without it, there is extinction. That's how basic and important it is. It's not bad, it's a natural fact of life, and the only bad thing is people trying to teach you it's bad. That causes emotional and psychological problems, and causing others problems is bad.
Let go of expectations based on what others think. Other people don't matter for your sex life. Only you, and your thoughts, ideas and beliefs matters for your sex life. You're caught between a very difficult pair of conflicting programs... because there is no denying the urge to reproduce, and there is no denying that someone did a bang-up job telling you that you must deny it.
That makes complete sense man. This is the reason I've been working on this thing for 2 years already. However how long before all this negative programming in my mind be removed? As I said I sure made a lot of progress from before but I'm still not on the level I want to be in. Am I just getting impatient or my progress just takes slow?
Quote:One thing I notice is common is for people to assume they can get end-all, be all results from using a program for 32 days. 32 days is the minimum time recommended to use a program like that for... not the standard time. If you haven't finished getting to the results you want... keep going!
I think you should use end self sabotage with remove negativity with for a few months.
Okay. I'm just getting impatient with the results man. I want to be a confident man immediately.
(03-11-2012, 04:58 PM)Shannon Wrote: Please remove the links in your previous post. They violate the rules as advertising, considering how close they are to the products I offer.
Self hyponosis is similar to subliminals. You are still programming your mind with it. The concept stands. They can potentially conflict.
Sorry about that. I removed the links.
With that I'm going to focus on first on Absolute Self-Confidence (4g). I'll post my progress here as soon as I can. Thanks again Shannon!
"Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."