Path to Greatness - Journal

[Shannon]

There is never a time when competing for a woman is inevitable. You either choose to compete or not.

Even if she's someone you have never met, competing is unnecessary. You simply make her aware of you and enjoy her company, and if she is interested, she will signal that fact and you can move forward. Without having competed.

If I was married, and another man came onto my wife, I would not have to worry, because it takes two to tango. She will either reject said advances and show that she wants to be my wife, or she will accept them and get kicked to the curb. It's not a competition. She's taken. He is in the wrong for trying to go after a married woman. She is in the wrong, if she entices or responds. But there is nothing competing is going to do about it. I either have a woman who chooses to be with me, or she doesn't. If she does, I have nothing to worry about. If she doesn't, she's gone, and I move on.

Competition is never necessary. Even in a culture where kissing a woman's ass to get her to notice you is standard practice. Why? Because if everyone else is kissing her ass and you nonchalantly don't, but simply enjoy talking to her, guess what? You're showing yourself to not be beta, you're showing yourself to be different, and you're showing yourself to be interested in something other than tits and ass. And women will always take notice of that and usually appreciate it as well.

And if they don't, guess what? They're not mature enough to be worth going after regardless.

Present yourself, enjoy her company, and let go of need or expectation. It will polarize the women in response. The ones worth your time will make that fact very obvious for you... and the rest will fall away.