Yeah it is strange that after letting go of those emotions I started to see how it is a bit weird, or maybe it's just triggered some of my programming. But I feel improving my confidence and such to as high as I can is more important instead of trying to learn conversational hypnosis to cover those insecurities up.
Yeah i've learnt to keep things simple, especially in the first lesson, in some first lessons i've done scenario training and scared them off. It pisses me off that he would try to cover way too many things then tell you that your a slow learner, what bullshit.
The way i've learnt to keep it simple and build things up so far the people i've trained are able to learn relatively quick and start putting things together. Because alot of the stuff I add to it is just building off what I did before, like learning a tool, applying it on pads, on the person gently to get the feel and then building from there.
What I noticed is it did help me pick up things quicker and built my desire more to learn what I already wanted to learn, it didn't make me want to learn things that I didn't have any desire to learn in the first place.
I don't do much with weapons, I have done a bit of stuff with kali sticks and I know it's good for coordination, but I don't really know enough about it to teach past basic coordination drills so it's better for me to stick to what I know.
I have come across the concept of weapons transferring to open hand, but I can't really make the connection past concepts. Like I train with certain concepts and teach people to apply them and that could still apply to weapons, but past that i'm not really sure. By concepts I mean forward drive, overwhelming the attacker, controlled aggression, shifting the predator-prey dynamic etc..
Though alot of that wouldn't be familiar to most people who have done martial arts training as it seems to be more in personal protection/rbsd type stuff.
But it works, I know from experience.
All we need is a 2 way teleporter so we can train together.
-Ben
Yeah i've learnt to keep things simple, especially in the first lesson, in some first lessons i've done scenario training and scared them off. It pisses me off that he would try to cover way too many things then tell you that your a slow learner, what bullshit.
The way i've learnt to keep it simple and build things up so far the people i've trained are able to learn relatively quick and start putting things together. Because alot of the stuff I add to it is just building off what I did before, like learning a tool, applying it on pads, on the person gently to get the feel and then building from there.
What I noticed is it did help me pick up things quicker and built my desire more to learn what I already wanted to learn, it didn't make me want to learn things that I didn't have any desire to learn in the first place.
I don't do much with weapons, I have done a bit of stuff with kali sticks and I know it's good for coordination, but I don't really know enough about it to teach past basic coordination drills so it's better for me to stick to what I know.
I have come across the concept of weapons transferring to open hand, but I can't really make the connection past concepts. Like I train with certain concepts and teach people to apply them and that could still apply to weapons, but past that i'm not really sure. By concepts I mean forward drive, overwhelming the attacker, controlled aggression, shifting the predator-prey dynamic etc..
Though alot of that wouldn't be familiar to most people who have done martial arts training as it seems to be more in personal protection/rbsd type stuff.
But it works, I know from experience.
All we need is a 2 way teleporter so we can train together.
-Ben
