maniac - Agreed that the guys in Grace seem beta and overall NG is pretty fluffy. It would definitely not qualify as my primary means of self-development, but I think it can be useful. Don't really know what is the definition of "hypnosis" and if it matters that it is or isn't hypnosis? Is hypnosis a "suggestible state"? Would you say there are suggestions in NG and, if yes, what suggestions? Oh, and how did you notice it started affecting you after 1 week? Curious.
I am actually in a bit of a trance-like state on dates sometimes. Some would say this is "bad", but the point of a date for me is usually to enjoy the lovely woman I'm going out with. Yes, she does get to be the center of my attention, but I won't fake liking her if I don't or anything like that. If I specifically wanted to DO stuff I could just do it on my own. Instead now I'm choosing to do her, if she's fun and up for it ;)
What I like about NG is it seems to direct you to focus on, and value, her movement, freedom of expression and how she's feeling instead of details like the shape of her tits. In what's going on inside her as opposed to her body I guess. Of course the focus on her body comes naturally if she's hot, so this just balances it out. Disclaimer: you don't have to feel LIKE she feels, just observe it as something fascinating that's outside you.
I am actually in a bit of a trance-like state on dates sometimes. Some would say this is "bad", but the point of a date for me is usually to enjoy the lovely woman I'm going out with. Yes, she does get to be the center of my attention, but I won't fake liking her if I don't or anything like that. If I specifically wanted to DO stuff I could just do it on my own. Instead now I'm choosing to do her, if she's fun and up for it ;)
What I like about NG is it seems to direct you to focus on, and value, her movement, freedom of expression and how she's feeling instead of details like the shape of her tits. In what's going on inside her as opposed to her body I guess. Of course the focus on her body comes naturally if she's hot, so this just balances it out. Disclaimer: you don't have to feel LIKE she feels, just observe it as something fascinating that's outside you.
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.
