LionKing's Mating Season (SM3)

[LionKing]

Don't just tease us! Was it about more stamina or better "knowing her spots"? I'm really glad everytime a SM3 user reports results, it makes me even more eager to start it myself in a couple of weeks.

:D Neither actually.. well basically she said that she's always getting her "money's worth" and "getting it good" (translation). I was more impressed by how that kinda came out of nowhere.. her 1st message was also something about how she could really use some "fun" very soon etc. She's just overall clearly more into it for the sex itself.. before it was clear that our thing is mostly about sex, with intimacy, but it was just something that happened every time, maybe 2-3 hours after she came over. It was more implied than explicitly announced. Now its like the sex itself is celebrated as the main course of her coming over, and there's a lot of intimacy that builds on this appreciation of the other person as a sexual partner and someone who gives a lot of value that way. At least that's how I feel and I'm getting that from her, too. And the sex also tends to happen earlier now, maybe 0.5-1.5 hours. I never rush it.

^^I think that shift reflects how my internal views about sex have changed. Its more "normal", its something to be celebrated and its this positive loop of:
1. she is gorgeous (my type)
---> 2. I get a jolt of energy from her presence
---> 3. I physically express to her how her mere presence is making it hard for me to even control myself
---> 4. she receives this appreciation from me, and it makes her see herself as much more beautiful than she did before
---> 5. she becomes even MORE gorgeous ---> (back to step 2)

It all amounts to the belief that I HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE TO HER, and it just happens to be something I'm very happy to give. Also the idea that I don't have to know what I'm doing, I just have to allow her to inspire me so that my instincts take over. The same idea applies when approaching and when having sex. And what I like most about sex is not the orgasm at the end anymore, but this powerful, sexy, "out of my head" feeling I have during the act. I'd just want to stay at that 9.5 intensity for an hour, lol. And that's also the same with approaching... its like the orgasm or getting a number/laid is somewhat unimportant because there's already so much value in it for me before those "achievements".

I'm not too impressed with the progress on stamina yet, but its a bit hard to evaluate. I see her roughly weekly, so that means the last time I came was a week ago, sometimes almost 2. Actually what happened last time was that I decided to really tease myself and see how much I could take, pulling out many times and going very slowly, keeping myself right on the edge.. and then at some point I'd kinda had enough and it seemed she'd had enough as well. We just stopped. So in a way I had very little stamina, I just extended it to longish time (idk how long, nothing phenomenal). Then 1-2 hours later round 2 was very hard and *very* quick. Then in the morning it was actually a pretty good & lengthy pounding. So I guess that averages out to... average, lol. But I'll report if/when there's clear progress. After the "O", I still get anxious thinking about whether I'll be able to perform again as quickly as she'd like to. Which, or course, is probably the only reason I might have such troubles.

So far you make really good progress in my opinion, I'm happy you're able to get results from this sub!

Thanks. Though I'm not swimming in attraction, I feel I'm making pretty good progress too.. and I should probably keep that in mind, because I've been doing lots & lots of pstec the whole time. The direct results of pstec work are clear, but I am also getting SM3 results, like escalation desensitization & eye seduction. I agree that pstec is strong and the new beliefs must start of as weak, so wouldn't that pretty much conclude that I haven't been targeting the new beliefs (otherwise they'd be gone already)? The feelings I clear nowadays a mostly very familiar "background-feelings" that I'm so accustomed to its hard to notice them, e.g. this feeling that I want to escape from a connection/conversation/situation because I expect that very soon I'll have nothing to say and it'll die out, so I'd better leave/look away on a high point now. And I have much less of that now. Awkward pauses kind of amuse me in many situations now. I have to say I'm relieved Geodude is getting external results, so the implication that pstec erases those results is largely lifted. I'll go for some sort of balance with it, listening to myself. Its very likely that I'll run SM3 again anyway, even if I get great results with this run. It'd feel a bit pointless to switch to BASE immediately and lose the momentum without enjoying it for a while. NSFM for a full year straight.. lol.

Btw, my new approach to all other people I meet is that everyone is as cool as I am. There's no competition. Seems to work great. If I notice I'm comparing myself to someone, its usually because I see him/her as having some unfair advantage over me, like looks, or whatever. I just turn that around to "he/she must be as cool as I am, because look at how cool that (advantage) is". I even had to deal with this confrontational guy at a meeting, I just concentrated on the fact that he is very experienced and he has a lot of information I can use. Didn't take him long to become much more helpful.