LionKing's Mating Season (SM3)

[SargeMaximus]

You can also add in there "I can handle anything". A lot of fear stems from the ingrained belief that we can't handle whatever it is we're afraid of.

That's actually great, those two seem like a perfect pair. One makes the gas pedal work better and the other removes the brake pedal.. hitting a wall is guaranteed, but if "I can handle anything", then... I guess that's ok

Practically it proved a bit difficult though. Have you tried it? What did you imagine and how did you feel about it? I had this idea of recovering and moving on with whatever I was doing after something bad happened. The feeling is a bit like brazing for impact, steeling myself against the coming failure. I'm not sure how the positive track works and if this is a good feeling to repeat with it.. already tried accelerator tracks and click tracks on that feeling. Some success, but its very tricky. I guess a peaceful feeling would be ideal, now its more like courageous. I'll try it before "I can do anything" for a few days. Better to end on that as its more positive.

Well, I try to be general and am largely hoping that the PSTEC Positive will instill the belief that my mind will work on. It's more the words I guess you could say.

Why not just walk around malls and learn to amuse yourself? That's what I'm up to these days, can definitely be fun AND it's a huge boost to your self-esteem, doing something no one else can do.

I like the idea, but I don't live in a big-enough city to have access to big malls. There's something, though, its just small. By amuse yourself, do you mean you... browse stuff, play with social dynamics or what?

Oh shit, that sounds rough. Maybe move? lol

For me, I'm just starting, but going into stores and doing what I want to do there (like shop for something or inquire about something or whatnot) and then get women I see there to help me with it.

Walking around the mall and approaching random women is still an issue for me, but when I go out and get groceries I can chat up women just fine these days. I think it has to do with having an excuse or reason other than simply wanting the woman. They seem eager to join in too, which is great, but I still feel like it's not right.

On the other hand, women are masters of hiding their intentions below the radar, and it's obvious when a conversation about something in the store is actually a sexual teasing session.