10-23-2014, 04:01 PM
/\ Cool "program". You can also add in there "I can handle anything". A lot of fear stems from the ingrained belief that we can't handle whatever it is we're afraid of.
Why not just walk around malls and learn to amuse yourself? That's what I'm up to these days, can definitely be fun AND it's a huge boost to your self-esteem, doing something no one else can do.
(10-23-2014, 10:09 AM)LionKing Wrote: I'm trying to figure out where I could meet women during the day... I can go to the gym 3 times a week, so that's one way. I also go to another hobby once a week, but its only the same few people there every time. Cafés seem a bit expensive in the long run, but I guess I can go to those a few times a week too. I don't want to go shopping that often, because that'd just end in me getting broke, fast. Grocery stores... its usually pretty packed and everyone (like me) is feeling busy with their errands. And just going for a walk isn't enjoyable anymore because its getting colder and darker. Not a lot of people want to stop for a chat in those conditions either. I could go to visit a friend or someone who's conveniently located, but, again, winter isn't great for meeting people on the way outside.. hmm. I'd prefer to not spend my time on Tinder or dating sites, as I don't care for trying to convince women with words, and it also tends to distract me too much throughout the day. I could ask my friends out to eat more, though its expensive and lots of useless calories. I guess that'll do, though any suggestions are welcome. The intention is to be out & around people a lot, but without specifically going out to meet women. Something like what Simple Pickup does. I'll continue going out on Saturday nights as well.
Why not just walk around malls and learn to amuse yourself? That's what I'm up to these days, can definitely be fun AND it's a huge boost to your self-esteem, doing something no one else can do.
