09-07-2014, 04:28 AM
(09-07-2014, 01:29 AM)LionKing Wrote: From today's reading, I had an interesting thought on the "oh shit, I just came home and the gf is in a mood again" problem. The guy from Masculine intent is basically saying the same thing as David Deida, which is to be present for her and guide her feelings out of their current, bad state. Mostly ignore the words she says and instead "ground her".
This is fascinating. I've noticed a few girls who are in bad moods, and I usually just remain detached, thinking that to be the "thing" to do. Display outcome independence etc.
However, I HAVE had times where I have done this with girls and they absolutely LOVE you afterwards. Thing is, I don't know exactly how to do it.
Are you saying I just stick with her and hear her out? I don't want to become what is called an "emotional tampon". How do you stick with her without becoming that?
